Hi everyone, forgoing my usual Seven on Sunday this weekend and just wanted to check in and fill you in. I have been truly overwhelmed and touched by the outpouring of love, support and kindness from my readers, customers and Instagram followers. T H A N K Y O U! I finally had a chance to sit down and read each and every message.
I came home to my kitchen counter filled with cards, flowers and baskets of food from family and friends. I feel the love and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for it.
What happened a week ago last week will forever change my life. My mother is gone. I am still coming to grips with it. It still feels very surreal and I am totally overwhelmed with an immense sadness. I vacillate between having moments of feeling “semi normal” to balling uncontrollably like a baby. I imagine it will be this way for a while. I am trying to comfort myself by remembering how much she suffered, being physically present but somewhat cut off from connecting with those who loved her. We were there with her 24/7 and I believe she knew that. My mom was the most selfless, kindest, sweetest, gentlest, most beautiful human being inside and out that I have ever know. Everyone who knew her referred to her as either a “first lady” or “a real life angel”. And I cannot disagree. She was all that and more.
The love my dad showed my mom as I expressed to him, is to this day, the most beautiful expression of love and devotion I have ever seen. It touched me beyond anything imaginable. How lucky they were to have each other. I think she felt the love that was by her side until she took her last breath.
Right now all I know is I am suffering as is my dad and sister. We are heartbroken beyond what I thought was possible. But I have to trust it will get easier to cope with her not being here. It is hard to imagine my world and life without her in it. She was such a big part of my life and I will spend every day trying to honor her in some way or another.
I was shocked to read over how many of you have been affected and touched by Alzheimer’s with a loved one. The absolute cruelest disease imaginable, one that leaves you physically intact (for the most part) but robs you of your mind, is beyond imagination. I felt like I lost a little part of my mother every day as the disease progressed this last year and thought maybe it would help losing her in the end, a little less traumatic.
I cannot say that’s been the case. But I will say one thing, she was heavily medicated the last few weeks and despite that, she did not look “at rest”. It was pure torment for my dad, sister and I to see her asleep all the time. We so badly wanted to see one last smile, hear her voice even if we couldn’t understand the words. I wanted her to squeeze my hand back just one more time.
When she passed away, suddenly she looked like “the old Mimi”, her face showed such peace and relief, she looked so beautiful and angelic. I have that memory etched in my mind as I hope, it will help to comfort me during these difficult days.
Being there with my Dad was so important. I am so glad I jumped into my car spontaneously that Tuesday, the minute my dad said she had turned a corner (for the worse) as it allowed me to spend the last 14 days of her life by her side and to support my dear and strong Dad (he later admitted he didn’t know how much he needed me to be there until I was ).
There is something about those 17 days that were very precious and priceless to me. We had a routine, granted not the kind of routine I would wish upon anyone, but still it was routine based around caring for my mother, getting her meds to her on time, assisting the rotating hospice nurses when they arrived, sitting by her side, talking to her, praying for her, making meals for my dad, catching the evening news, discussing world affairs and mostly sharing so many wonderful stories centered around my Mom. My sister and niece could come over and spend the days with us, bringing us all kinds of yummy meals and treats. I would not trade those weeks for anything in the world. I am also thankful to my dear husband, Michael who was so supportive and incredibly understanding. I would have stayed even longer but had to come home…..
So I came back to NY mostly for one reason……….. we are moving. You heard correctly. I had not planned to share the news this way. I had a whole post planned around it. But here we are….yes, after living in our beautiful home for nearly 12 years, we are starting a new chapter. Our kids have flown the nest and as much as we love this house, it is way way too big for 2 people. It was a beautiful chapter of our life and we will always be grateful for it.
This is the kind of house that needs people, life, laughter, kids and dogs running through it filling the space. We once had that and it was so wonderful, too many amazing memories to count were created here. I will hold onto them and treasure them forever. When a certain house came onto the market last year, we felt that was our cue. A home I had long admired from afar. I look forward to sharing much more with you in the coming weeks.
(this was the last time my mom was at my house, my last Christmas party in 2019)
Bottom line, is I am knee deep is some serious packing/organization working in tandem with the movers. Oh my word, I forgot how physically exhausting moving is. Plus the mental aspect particularly now, due to my mothers passing has made this extra challenging. Everything I touch seems to have a memory tied to my mother. But I am a fighter and will persevere. We are moving around Nov 18th so that is literally around the corner. It is a bit overwhelming right now but even in 2 days, we have gotten a lot done.
Got a huge dumpster and am purging like mad. Donating a ton. And trying to streamline what we move with. Seeing the dumpster makes it all very real.
That said, I don’t have the headspace to sort through every thing as it would take months, so am packing up most and will go through it all in the new house as time (and my mindset) allows. Too much at once.
Forgot how much storage our huge attic allowed…..12 years worth of Christmas decor, photos, luggage and so much more!
Always a challenge as I tend to be way too sentimental about things. Where is Marie Kondo when I need her! My boys trophies, awards, graduation gowns and caps, boxes and boxes of precious handmade school projects, instruments, old luggage, magazines enough to fill a small Barnes and Noble, books and cookbooks galore, too many holiday decorations, size 2 and 4 clothes (finally relegated myself to realizing I will not ware those again:) Need I go on, you get the picture. Don’t even get me started on dishes and linens….let’s just say it’s a lot.
It will get done tough, one way or another. So these next few weeks will be a bit different around here. Molly who is a very capable and able team member will work on blog posts and Instagram until I am feeling a bit more settled both with moving and dealing with my Mother’s death. I look forward to getting back in the saddle, as I have always shared that blogging is like my therapy and I truly love doing it.
Knowing how much my dear Mom loved my blog and was my very first official fan makes it that much more meaningful now. Molly will share a few posts I had prepared weeks ago and I hope to resume in a few weeks myself. Until then just wanted to update you as so many of you have reached out. Ending this with a picture of our new home….lots more to come in the coming weeks. Take care of yourself and thank you again for your support and kindness.
Thank you for stopping by, wishing everyone a wonderful day. If you are lucky enough to have your mom, give her an extra tight hug, tell you love her and take a picture of you together. If I learned one thing, its that there is no such thing as too much picture taking. I treasure the pictures with my mom now more than ever before. Back to packing, until next time……
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I am so sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and resilience. I think your Mother would so proud of how you helped your Dad and live your life making family a priority. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
SO sorry to hear about your mom..my husband also had alzheimers..it was a long and grueling good-bye. But how wonderful for you that you clearly had a mom that gave you your wonderful sense of style and elegance.. You were/are so lucky. When my own mother was dying I said “Im going to miss talking to you mom” and she said “You can still talk to me-I will be there-I can hear you”
So talk to her as Im sure you will .Im sure your beautiful mom will sleep well with the angels
Best
Tricia O’C
After my husband sudden death, I stayed in a big house with 9 acres , many in flower beds, I was drowning ! The move from that estate, nearly did me in. I’m with you in spirit. Sorry for your loss, go ahead and wrap those dishes with tears.
Your world is just tinted a little differently now. Stay strong .
So very sorry for your loss. How wonderful that you were able to be with her while she made her transition to Heaven! This move, while stressful, may be just the thing you need to occupy your time as you grieve. May the move preparations progress smoothly as you pack and process memories. Wishing you every happiness and many happy memories in your new home.
I so admire your strength, losing your mon is very difficult and add trying to move well just try to take things slow. It will all get done one day, no need to do it all now.
Take care of yourself.
My condolences to you and your family. You are going through a difficult time and moving as well!!! During the holidays!!! You seem to be organized and have a good team of people around you. The best of everything to you. Your mother was lovely.
You will all heal in time knowing your mother is no longer in pain and is at peace. The love and comfort she gave all of you will bring beautiful memories of her. And you are all stronger for it. Many blessings to all of you.
Dear Tina –
I am so sorry that you have so much on your shoulders right now.
My mother passed suddenly when our son was barely two years old, how wonderful that your sons got to know and love their Grandmother. Mom wanted her ashes to rest in a family plot in the province she grew up in, so we ended up having two services for her, the second for friends and family in Manitoba who were unable to travel for the first.
One afternoon the week after I returned home, I put our son down for his nap, I decided to do the same. I woke up to the sound of his baby giggling, the sound he would make when his Dad or I would walk into his room to lift him out of his crib. As I sat up in bed I heard footsteps down the stairs to the main floor. I recognized those steps as my Mother’s, the same sound I heard in the house I grew up in. Instead of being scared, that sound was comforting.
I was never one to believe in ghosts or spirits, but I know that I heard my Mother checking in on her grandson. Your Mother will give you a sign that she is watching over you, that she is fine, when you least expect it. I hope that your tears of grief are replaced by tears of joy as you remember all the wonderful memories you have of her.
God bless.
What a beautiful tribute to your beloved mother. Your courage in sharing your journey is remarkable and very touching. I feel your friendship through your wonderful blogs.
And now, moving on top of just having lost your dearest mother! It is quite the chore! Thinking of you,
Tina,
Your world is changing as I speak. Hold dear all the sweet memories of your Mom, your family in the home that will soon be filled with more memories for the new owners. Onward, life is an awesome journey!
I am so so deeply sorry for the loss of your mom. It takes the breath out of your soul. I know when my mom died it was the silence I found to be deafening. I couldn’t understand that days would still come and go and people would still smile and my children laugh and I just was screaming in my head that my mother was no longer in this world. I would never hear her voice again, see her smile, hold her hand, look into her eyes, feel her hug, my children would never know her (they were both under 5 at the time). In the 28 years since, there isn’t a day that goes by I don’t think of her, I hold her in my heart, her caring, her humor, her kindness, most of all her unconditional love.
What a gift and a blessing to know and feel such love but then we will also know the deepest of grief.
Take each day one at a time. Easier said than done, I know. above all be very kind and gentle with yourself. Your mom is within you, she will always be with you. I know words do not help, nothing helps right now but time will…and your beautiful family and friends. Love is everything.
So heartbreaking to hear of the loss of your beautiful mother. It has taken me years to get over the loss of my mother, so I so emphasize. I, too, downsized from a larger home to a mid-sized condo & the process of moving helped with the grief as it was a distraction. Afterwards the memories flooded back. Overwhelming is an understatement to what you are going through. I, too, had to just pack up many things to think about editing later as it was all too much. It has been 4 years & I am just now getting to those boxes & each one is like opening a Christmas present & memory box at the same time. Leave some decisions on editing for later. It’s all too much for you right now while you are still raw with grief. Be kind to yourself.
My deepest sympathies for your loss. A mother daughter bond is forever. Even death can’t break that bond. May your wonderful memories of your mother bring you comfort. Prayers for you and your family.
Tina, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. It sounds like you shared a beautiful friendship with her as well as love . Prayers for you and your family.
Truly sorry for your loss. Your mother was beautiful and from what you describe had a beautiful soul. She is with the angels free of any pain and will always be with you. Tough times are ahead but your memories will help you. I lost my Mom 5 years ago this month and it is still painful for me.
You have my deepest sympathy. Last year my father died (which was expected) & exactly 3 wks later my mother died unexpectedly. Then we moved. I didn’t do a lot of purging & when we got to our new home that is when I started to get rid of things. My husband called it downsizing after the fact!! You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Take care sweetheart.
Tina,
Again, so very sorry again for this enormous loss. It does get more subtle. The deep pain. Does not leave entirely, though. We have gone through Alzheimer’s/dementia in our family multiple times. I don’t understand why there is not more progress in this area. A dear cousin succumbed to this horrible scourge of a disease. A form called “early Alzheimer’s”. She was gone in her early 60s leaving her immediate family positively shattered.
Tina, your new home is lovely. Just lovely. We need downsizing here, as well. I must say that all the things you have accumulated in the big house are stored/organized so much better than mine have been in this big house. 30 years worth!
Husband wants to do it WITHOUT a dumpster! We shall see……..
Sending you and your family love and peace during this difficult time. What a tribute to your mother that you center your life around family. She loved and taught you well and you in turn, have done the same. My heart aches with yours.
Alzheimer’s is such a dreadful disease for both those suffering from it and those who are watching it’s progression. It has been 23 years since my mother passed and while time has eased my grief, it never fails to strike at my heart when faced with the memory. I’m glad you have sorting, packing and moving to fill your time and thoughts. Be thankful for those wonderful memories and the knowledge that she is at peace!
Tina~
Thank you for opening up your heart and sharing. This is such a difficult time for you. Grieving is a process that will take time. You are so very strong and have good caring people around you.
My thoughts and prayers are with and your family. Big hugs.
Dear Tina ,
Your beautiful memories are what will carry you when you feel you can’t carry on. I think the love I had for my Mum all came back ( filled up with tears) as I read your blog. My Daddy was her caregiver too. Now he’s gone , and I know that love never dies. They are together again. You’re giving a fine testimony to your own sons about you ! Blessings for peace.
What a beautiful tribute to your Mother and a testament to your love of your parents. Having a father that had Alzheimer’s, it so sad to see them slip away.. You just have to believe she is a peace surrounded by other passed on loved ones.
So very sorry. You were blessed to have such a beautiful relationship with your mother. Cherish the memories and photos and carry on in her teachings and traditions. She lives on through you and your sister. My prayers are with you and your family as we approach the holy season of Christmas.
What a lovely post and tribute to your beautiful Mother. I lost my mother in a similar way in 2019. While the pain of loss slowly subsides, replaced by cherished memories, there are times when I will see a beautiful garden, or hear something that would make her laugh, and I almost reach for my phone to call her. At those times, I remind myself how incredibly lucky I was to have such an amazing mother. Sending comfort and hugs XOXO
Tina as I had said on the other post from last week I feel your pain having also lost a parent to Alzheimer’s. There is no disease that takes away our loved ones so wickedly as this one.
I hope that in due time, you will find peace knowing that she’s not suffering and feel grateful that you had such a long life to create so many beautiful memories. She sure was a beautiful and elegant lady and sounds like she had a heart that matched.
I can imagine how overwhelmed you must feel right now between the grief of your mom and the excitement of moving, congratulations on your move. Pace yourself and if it means having everything boxed up and sorting through it at your own pace once you move in, so be it! they say moving is one of the most emotional things a person can go through so take good care of yourself.
I look forward to hearing about your new home, God does work in mysterious ways and perhaps the timing is such that this will keep you very busy and to not spiral from the loss of your mother.
I am sending you my best wishes and keeping you and your family in my prayers.
A beautiful tribute to your mother and your father. Every parent should be so great and every child should be as wonderful as you. May your memories of her soon bring you a smile instead of tears.
Best wishes on your move. I will miss seeing your beautiful home. I’m confident that your new home will be beautiful and will become a joy for all of us to follow as you personalize it with your wonderful decorating ideas. Best wishes to you and your family.
Tina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I was able to see the love that your dad had and showed for your mother on many occassion as I frequently saw them on my daily walk. He was so gentle and kind.
Your mom is in your heart my friend, savor the memories and the time with your dad.
Take care, xo
Omg I’m overwhelmed with the tasks ahead for you. I did this downsizing in 2014. It’s such a process and mentally exhausting because of the memories around so so much. Good luck warrior princess.
What a beautiful tribute to your beautiful mother. You will be comforted by her when the pangs of hurt start to reside. Being so busy moving is good but you’ll relive her memories in each peace, so wrap, pack, cry. It actually may be cathartic for you. Wishes and blessings for you in your new home.
Tina,
I truly feel for you. I lost my dear mother, a saint also, six years ago and my dad three weeks ago. My only sibling, my younger brother, two years ago. I feel very alone. Please take care of yourself and focus on your dad and sister. As much as you love them and do for them, the time will come when you wished you did more. When they pass it feels like it was not enough. Perhaps you will feel differently but that is not my case. May God bless you and comfort you.
So very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. As one who’s parents are both gone I can say that time helps but is a slow process. Focus on the wonderful life she led.
I am WAITING with “baited breath” to see and hear more about your NEW Abode !!! As a Military Brat who moved VERY often – I do not (let me repeat for those in the back – DO NOT) envy your current packing and upcoming move – UGH . BUT – there’s the future home awaiting your beautiful touch – and I for one cannot WAIT to see what’s in store (pun intended – lol)
Oh Tina,
I am so very sorry to read the news about the loss of your dear Mother! Losing family members whether they are humans or our furry friends is so heartbreaking. It takes a long time to live with the new. reality.
I may have missed a few posts, I am also packing to move two hours south to Richmond, VA. .I have soooo much stuff but I sure would love to dig through your dumpster!!
❤️ Ellen
Tina, I am so sorry that you lost your dear Mother, and are having a very hard time dealing with it. I did as well, and still do cry so hard at times, especially when I need her. I will keep you in my prayers! I hope that your move will help to lift your spirits.
Hugs and Blessings
Judy
What a beautiful tribute to your mother and I’m so very sorry for your loss, truly. My mother is 90 in January and each time I leave her I cry never knowing if it is the last time. It’s such a blessing in life to have a GOOD mother and one you can be friends with too! Losing those we love is so very hard…..when you love deeply, you grieve deeply. So be kind to yourself, let the tears come, feel the feelings…that is how you grieve well. God bless.
I wish good thoughts to you and your family. Strength comes in all sorts of loving memories. Recalling them is a gift and sharing that gift gives you the meaning of love first hand since you experienced it.
In viewing your dishes all I can say is I love dishes. Its like I can’t say no to the old patterns of Homer Laughlin before fiesta ware. Most sets are incomplete and some well used. And I find them at unusual places. Still looking and you have to collect something right?
Good luck with the move. As they say Been There Done That.
Dear Tina, just now learning about the very sad passing of your precious, wonderful mother, and my heart is truly broken for you. Just by looking at the various pictures of her in different stages of her life, makes it so very evident of her fun-loving, unforgettable and elegant character. It speaks volumes to the way that you yourself were raised. May our Heavenly Father grant you, your dear earthly Father and your family much comfort and joy in your combined memories of her, until you meet again!
Tina,
So sorry for the loss of your precious mother.
God’s grace and your mothers love will be your strength,
Remember always she lives within you……
You are covered in love and prayers dear Tina.
Tina
I will cherish this blog. Your candour, for the loss of your mum has touched me so deeply. I to lost my precious mother, my best friend a few years ago and this blog has helped bring forward my very special memories of her, my personal Angel.
Good luck with the move. I look forward to seeing photos of your new home.
I just read your blog explaining your mom’s death. I extend my sincere condolences to you and your family. I can empathize with all you shared. I certainly hope you will take care off yourself. Your love for her is very evident!!
It has been 8 years since my lovely mother died at 951/2; I miss her very much; and in 10 days it will be her birthday. I still remember when I started reading your blog….I was home recuperating from surgery and you were beginning to decorate you house from which you are moving.
So, please accept this comment that I send you with my support and prayers.
Tina, thanks for sharing those lovely pictures of your Mom and Dad. Hold on to all those precious memories. We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your precious Mom — and look forward to moving to your lovely new home. It is so much for you right now. We are happy that you have found a beautiful home to move into. Bless you!
Oh, my, I am a bit overwhelmed by those details of packing and moving right on top of your grief work! Please allow time and space for yourself. On the other hand, keeping physically busy can be therapeutic for you. Do allow your team as much physical responsibility as you can spare. Don’t get sick this winter!
Tina,
Please accept my sincere sympathy on the passing of your lovely mother. The timing of your upcoming move will help you to move forward as well as keep your mind on other pressing things. Your mother would most likely want you to focus on this. While it is perfectly natural to grieve and that process is different for everyone, you will probably find your days whizzing by and your sleep (because of exhaustion) most welcoming! I am lifting you and your family in my prayers for God’s comfort and peace
Tina what an absolutely beautiful and moving tribute to your beautiful mother. I can see the love in your parents eyes what an elegant couple they made.
I lost my parents just four months apart, it was devastating but I can promise you with faith and choosing to honor their memory by focusing on the good memories it will get you through Even started going to church not necessarily every Sunday but at least once or twice a month and that has helped a great deal.
God bless you and your family
Amy P. from Pasadena
Deepest sympathy Tina. Such a sad and stressful time. Be gentle on yourself, emotionally and physically it is a lot all at once. Best wishes for a beautiful new chapter in your next home. Best wishes from Australia.
My dearest Tina
I am thinking of you and all your family, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother, Mimi. All your tributes and the very personal family pictures have touched me very deeply and I feel honored that you have shared them. How proud she was of you, and your own lovely family, you were the light of her life. I can remember that enchanted Christmas party you gave, when your parents were there. I hope and pray those memories and feelings will comfort you in the weeks and months to come. I hope that you can take the grief a day at a time, and look after yourself darling no matter how much you have to do.
It was all because of your Enchanted Home that I met you all those years ago, and it will always be a magical place to me. One of the most exquisite houses I have ever seen, a true inspiration, a masterpiece. I will miss so very much
But our lives move on and of course I am delighted for you and Michael to have a lovely new home. I wish you peace and happiness there, where new memories will be made….. I am just wondering….maybe it is near water.
Thinking of you always and sending my condolences
and very fond love
Sallyxx
Cherish the memories!! She is so beautiful, and elegant!
There is a book by Diets. Life after loss. Your family may find helpful! So sorry for your loss.
The move may be the best thing for you now. Keeping busy is the best distraction.
Oh my goodness! Moving in the midst of grief, I can barely comprehend. I’m so sorry and pray you will find some comfort knowing you have many continuing to hold you close in thought and prayer🙏💙🙏 blessings, Grace and peace be unto you, dear one.
Sending prayers and good thoughts. I love the photo at Christmas time of your mom. She looks lovely.
A busy mind and body can be helpful when we’re going through a difficult time.
Kudos to you! You are taking that step that so many of us know is inevitable and Yet is one of the hardest to do. Looking forward to seeing your new home as you settle in. One thing is for certain, it will be fabulous with your wonderful eye for interior design. Ps Thank you for sharing photos of your attic. It made me feel good. I’m not alone! Take care.
So sorry for your loss, mothers are so tied to daughters as friends, confidant and always the first person you want to share news with. It is a terrible loss and so important to spend the last days with them if you possibly can. You will heal and you will find yourself remembering those last days with her as a healing tool. Packing up a home is also very emotional and difficult and physically exhausting. Take care of yourself and your dad, he will need you and your sister.
Bless you….you will carry your mother with you the rest of your life way down deep in your heart….she will always be there with you and you will feel her presence.
Tina… thank you for sharing your sadness and great loss with us. It makes it seem so normal for those of us who have been down this road ahead of you. Our Mom is a treasure God gives to each of us … we just don’t realize her impact until she’s gone. Sending you prayers of strength 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
May your memories help sustain you and allow your heart to heal . Sending condolences and hugs during this most difficult time in your life . Remember to give yourself grace .
So sorry to hear of your dear Mother’s passing. She sounds like the most wonderful Mother and truly good person. You are blessed to have had her as your Mum and you will carry with you all the wisdom and love that she gave to you. Sending you Love and Light at this very difficult time.
My Mom had dementia for 5 years bebore passing. The final 2 weeks spending with her I felt was her final gift to us her family. We are a large family 9 remaining siblings. We have not spent so much time together in 49 years. We got to enjoy each other while saying goodbye to our Mom who had become at widow at 46 with 10 children. We loved her greatly and her life of self sacrifice for her family. In Christ we know that we have eternity together life is but a blink in comparison. Send love and prayers
Dear Tina, I am so sorry about your mother. I have lost mine. You feel like you have a giant gaping wound in your whole
being. Your mother was adorable. Your memory of being with her will get sweeter as time goes by. You will never stop wanting to call her.
Praying the memories of your beautiful mother will stay strong in your heart and mind for years. Her legacy will live on forever in you, your sister, your children and future generations.
Very sorry for your loss. May God’s peace, comfort, and strength cover you during this difficult time.
God will provide you with the strength that you need.
Tina,
I am so sorry about your lose. Losing a parent no matter their age or yours is so difficult!
Be kind to yourself during this grieving time. I am sorry you have to work so hard because of the move but maybe a good distraction!
May your Mother rest in piece!
Love never ends, Your precious mother will live on in you and your boys, in your sister and your niece, and in all the lives you touch. Praying for you and your family.
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mom when I was 32. I look forward to seeing your new home. We downsized two years ago to 1,800 square feet. Got rid of tons of stuff, it is very freeing, Good luck in your move.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Mom. I lost my Mom last week to ovarian cancer, and to say I’m struggling is an understatement. Grief is hard and confusing. This is not a club I wanted to join, but do look forward to your future updates. We’ve got this ❤️
Tina what a beautiful tribute to your mom! She was a very beautiful lady and sounds like her heart was just as beautiful as that is what matters most. Have been thinking of you and praying for you during this time. As over whelming as the moving will be at least it will keep your mind occupied during this hard time. Bless you
Dear Tina,
I’m so sorry for what you are going through with your mom’s passing. It’s a very difficult time for you and your family, but it was wonderful that you were able to be there on her last days, and that you have such great memories of her.
I lost my mother to cancer 11 years ago, and I still can hear her laugh, and her voice telling me something. I feel very fortunate that I took care of her and had her in my home for her last four years of life.
I pray that time brings you peace and comfort to know that you were there with her at the end.
My deepest condolences,
Lucy
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Hi everyone, forgoing my usual Seven on Sunday this weekend and just wanted to check in and fill you in. I have been truly overwhelmed and touched by the outpouring of love, support and kindness from my readers, customers and Instagram followers. T H A N K Y O U! I finally had a chance to sit down and read each and every message.
I came home to my kitchen counter filled with cards, flowers and baskets of food from family and friends. I feel the love and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for it.
What happened a week ago last week will forever change my life. My mother is gone. I am still coming to grips with it. It still feels very surreal and I am totally overwhelmed with an immense sadness. I vacillate between having moments of feeling “semi normal” to balling uncontrollably like a baby. I imagine it will be this way for a while. I am trying to comfort myself by remembering how much she suffered, being physically present but somewhat cut off from connecting with those who loved her. We were there with her 24/7 and I believe she knew that. My mom was the most selfless, kindest, sweetest, gentlest, most beautiful human being inside and out that I have ever know. Everyone who knew her referred to her as either a “first lady” or “a real life angel”. And I cannot disagree. She was all that and more.
The love my dad showed my mom as I expressed to him, is to this day, the most beautiful expression of love and devotion I have ever seen. It touched me beyond anything imaginable. How lucky they were to have each other. I think she felt the love that was by her side until she took her last breath.
Right now all I know is I am suffering as is my dad and sister. We are heartbroken beyond what I thought was possible. But I have to trust it will get easier to cope with her not being here. It is hard to imagine my world and life without her in it. She was such a big part of my life and I will spend every day trying to honor her in some way or another.
I was shocked to read over how many of you have been affected and touched by Alzheimer’s with a loved one. The absolute cruelest disease imaginable, one that leaves you physically intact (for the most part) but robs you of your mind, is beyond imagination. I felt like I lost a little part of my mother every day as the disease progressed this last year and thought maybe it would help losing her in the end, a little less traumatic.
I cannot say that’s been the case. But I will say one thing, she was heavily medicated the last few weeks and despite that, she did not look “at rest”. It was pure torment for my dad, sister and I to see her asleep all the time. We so badly wanted to see one last smile, hear her voice even if we couldn’t understand the words. I wanted her to squeeze my hand back just one more time.
When she passed away, suddenly she looked like “the old Mimi”, her face showed such peace and relief, she looked so beautiful and angelic. I have that memory etched in my mind as I hope, it will help to comfort me during these difficult days.
Being there with my Dad was so important. I am so glad I jumped into my car spontaneously that Tuesday, the minute my dad said she had turned a corner (for the worse) as it allowed me to spend the last 14 days of her life by her side and to support my dear and strong Dad (he later admitted he didn’t know how much he needed me to be there until I was ).
There is something about those 17 days that were very precious and priceless to me. We had a routine, granted not the kind of routine I would wish upon anyone, but still it was routine based around caring for my mother, getting her meds to her on time, assisting the rotating hospice nurses when they arrived, sitting by her side, talking to her, praying for her, making meals for my dad, catching the evening news, discussing world affairs and mostly sharing so many wonderful stories centered around my Mom. My sister and niece could come over and spend the days with us, bringing us all kinds of yummy meals and treats. I would not trade those weeks for anything in the world. I am also thankful to my dear husband, Michael who was so supportive and incredibly understanding. I would have stayed even longer but had to come home…..
So I came back to NY mostly for one reason……….. we are moving. You heard correctly. I had not planned to share the news this way. I had a whole post planned around it. But here we are….yes, after living in our beautiful home for nearly 12 years, we are starting a new chapter. Our kids have flown the nest and as much as we love this house, it is way way too big for 2 people. It was a beautiful chapter of our life and we will always be grateful for it.
This is the kind of house that needs people, life, laughter, kids and dogs running through it filling the space. We once had that and it was so wonderful, too many amazing memories to count were created here. I will hold onto them and treasure them forever. When a certain house came onto the market last year, we felt that was our cue. A home I had long admired from afar. I look forward to sharing much more with you in the coming weeks.
(this was the last time my mom was at my house, my last Christmas party in 2019)
Bottom line, is I am knee deep is some serious packing/organization working in tandem with the movers. Oh my word, I forgot how physically exhausting moving is. Plus the mental aspect particularly now, due to my mothers passing has made this extra challenging. Everything I touch seems to have a memory tied to my mother. But I am a fighter and will persevere. We are moving around Nov 18th so that is literally around the corner. It is a bit overwhelming right now but even in 2 days, we have gotten a lot done.
Got a huge dumpster and am purging like mad. Donating a ton. And trying to streamline what we move with. Seeing the dumpster makes it all very real.
That said, I don’t have the headspace to sort through every thing as it would take months, so am packing up most and will go through it all in the new house as time (and my mindset) allows. Too much at once.
Forgot how much storage our huge attic allowed…..12 years worth of Christmas decor, photos, luggage and so much more!
Always a challenge as I tend to be way too sentimental about things. Where is Marie Kondo when I need her! My boys trophies, awards, graduation gowns and caps, boxes and boxes of precious handmade school projects, instruments, old luggage, magazines enough to fill a small Barnes and Noble, books and cookbooks galore, too many holiday decorations, size 2 and 4 clothes (finally relegated myself to realizing I will not ware those again:) Need I go on, you get the picture. Don’t even get me started on dishes and linens….let’s just say it’s a lot.
It will get done tough, one way or another. So these next few weeks will be a bit different around here. Molly who is a very capable and able team member will work on blog posts and Instagram until I am feeling a bit more settled both with moving and dealing with my Mother’s death. I look forward to getting back in the saddle, as I have always shared that blogging is like my therapy and I truly love doing it.
Knowing how much my dear Mom loved my blog and was my very first official fan makes it that much more meaningful now. Molly will share a few posts I had prepared weeks ago and I hope to resume in a few weeks myself. Until then just wanted to update you as so many of you have reached out. Ending this with a picture of our new home….lots more to come in the coming weeks. Take care of yourself and thank you again for your support and kindness.
Thank you for stopping by, wishing everyone a wonderful day. If you are lucky enough to have your mom, give her an extra tight hug, tell you love her and take a picture of you together. If I learned one thing, its that there is no such thing as too much picture taking. I treasure the pictures with my mom now more than ever before. Back to packing, until next time……
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Rest in peace my beautiful Mom
I am so sorry for your loss. I admire your strength and resilience. I think your Mother would so proud of how you helped your Dad and live your life making family a priority. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sending you blessings for your new home and prayers for the loss of your wonderful mother.
May God’s peace, comfort and strength cover you in the days ahead. Your beautiful mom left a legacy for your family that will live forever. ❤️
SO sorry to hear about your mom..my husband also had alzheimers..it was a long and grueling good-bye. But how wonderful for you that you clearly had a mom that gave you your wonderful sense of style and elegance.. You were/are so lucky. When my own mother was dying I said “Im going to miss talking to you mom” and she said “You can still talk to me-I will be there-I can hear you”
So talk to her as Im sure you will .Im sure your beautiful mom will sleep well with the angels
Best
Tricia O’C
I feel your pain. While it does get better, the tears will come the rest of your life, but the wonderful memories will also be there too!!
After my husband sudden death, I stayed in a big house with 9 acres , many in flower beds, I was drowning ! The move from that estate, nearly did me in. I’m with you in spirit. Sorry for your loss, go ahead and wrap those dishes with tears.
Your world is just tinted a little differently now. Stay strong .
So very sorry for your loss. How wonderful that you were able to be with her while she made her transition to Heaven! This move, while stressful, may be just the thing you need to occupy your time as you grieve. May the move preparations progress smoothly as you pack and process memories. Wishing you every happiness and many happy memories in your new home.
I so admire your strength, losing your mon is very difficult and add trying to move well just try to take things slow. It will all get done one day, no need to do it all now.
Take care of yourself.
My condolences to you and your family. You are going through a difficult time and moving as well!!! During the holidays!!! You seem to be organized and have a good team of people around you. The best of everything to you. Your mother was lovely.
You will all heal in time knowing your mother is no longer in pain and is at peace. The love and comfort she gave all of you will bring beautiful memories of her. And you are all stronger for it. Many blessings to all of you.
What a LOVEly tribute to a LOVEly Lady! Thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this time of loss.
So very, very sorry for your loss!
Dear Tina –
I am so sorry that you have so much on your shoulders right now.
My mother passed suddenly when our son was barely two years old, how wonderful that your sons got to know and love their Grandmother. Mom wanted her ashes to rest in a family plot in the province she grew up in, so we ended up having two services for her, the second for friends and family in Manitoba who were unable to travel for the first.
One afternoon the week after I returned home, I put our son down for his nap, I decided to do the same. I woke up to the sound of his baby giggling, the sound he would make when his Dad or I would walk into his room to lift him out of his crib. As I sat up in bed I heard footsteps down the stairs to the main floor. I recognized those steps as my Mother’s, the same sound I heard in the house I grew up in. Instead of being scared, that sound was comforting.
I was never one to believe in ghosts or spirits, but I know that I heard my Mother checking in on her grandson. Your Mother will give you a sign that she is watching over you, that she is fine, when you least expect it. I hope that your tears of grief are replaced by tears of joy as you remember all the wonderful memories you have of her.
God bless.
What a beautiful tribute to your beloved mother. Your courage in sharing your journey is remarkable and very touching. I feel your friendship through your wonderful blogs.
And now, moving on top of just having lost your dearest mother! It is quite the chore! Thinking of you,
Praying for your comfort and peace. Your mother sounds like a huge blessing to all in her realm. Praying for your loss
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family 🙏
Tina,
Your world is changing as I speak. Hold dear all the sweet memories of your Mom, your family in the home that will soon be filled with more memories for the new owners. Onward, life is an awesome journey!
I am so so deeply sorry for the loss of your mom. It takes the breath out of your soul. I know when my mom died it was the silence I found to be deafening. I couldn’t understand that days would still come and go and people would still smile and my children laugh and I just was screaming in my head that my mother was no longer in this world. I would never hear her voice again, see her smile, hold her hand, look into her eyes, feel her hug, my children would never know her (they were both under 5 at the time). In the 28 years since, there isn’t a day that goes by I don’t think of her, I hold her in my heart, her caring, her humor, her kindness, most of all her unconditional love.
What a gift and a blessing to know and feel such love but then we will also know the deepest of grief.
Take each day one at a time. Easier said than done, I know. above all be very kind and gentle with yourself. Your mom is within you, she will always be with you. I know words do not help, nothing helps right now but time will…and your beautiful family and friends. Love is everything.
So heartbreaking to hear of the loss of your beautiful mother. It has taken me years to get over the loss of my mother, so I so emphasize. I, too, downsized from a larger home to a mid-sized condo & the process of moving helped with the grief as it was a distraction. Afterwards the memories flooded back. Overwhelming is an understatement to what you are going through. I, too, had to just pack up many things to think about editing later as it was all too much. It has been 4 years & I am just now getting to those boxes & each one is like opening a Christmas present & memory box at the same time. Leave some decisions on editing for later. It’s all too much for you right now while you are still raw with grief. Be kind to yourself.
My deepest sympathies for your loss. A mother daughter bond is forever. Even death can’t break that bond. May your wonderful memories of your mother bring you comfort. Prayers for you and your family.
Tina, I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved mother. It sounds like you shared a beautiful friendship with her as well as love . Prayers for you and your family.
Truly sorry for your loss. Your mother was beautiful and from what you describe had a beautiful soul. She is with the angels free of any pain and will always be with you. Tough times are ahead but your memories will help you. I lost my Mom 5 years ago this month and it is still painful for me.
You have my deepest sympathy. Last year my father died (which was expected) & exactly 3 wks later my mother died unexpectedly. Then we moved. I didn’t do a lot of purging & when we got to our new home that is when I started to get rid of things. My husband called it downsizing after the fact!! You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. Take care sweetheart.
Tina,
Again, so very sorry again for this enormous loss. It does get more subtle. The deep pain. Does not leave entirely, though. We have gone through Alzheimer’s/dementia in our family multiple times. I don’t understand why there is not more progress in this area. A dear cousin succumbed to this horrible scourge of a disease. A form called “early Alzheimer’s”. She was gone in her early 60s leaving her immediate family positively shattered.
Tina, your new home is lovely. Just lovely. We need downsizing here, as well. I must say that all the things you have accumulated in the big house are stored/organized so much better than mine have been in this big house. 30 years worth!
Husband wants to do it WITHOUT a dumpster! We shall see……..
So many kind words about your mother–brought me to tears just reading them.
Sending you and your family love and peace during this difficult time. What a tribute to your mother that you center your life around family. She loved and taught you well and you in turn, have done the same. My heart aches with yours.
Alzheimer’s is such a dreadful disease for both those suffering from it and those who are watching it’s progression. It has been 23 years since my mother passed and while time has eased my grief, it never fails to strike at my heart when faced with the memory. I’m glad you have sorting, packing and moving to fill your time and thoughts. Be thankful for those wonderful memories and the knowledge that she is at peace!
Tina~
Thank you for opening up your heart and sharing. This is such a difficult time for you. Grieving is a process that will take time. You are so very strong and have good caring people around you.
My thoughts and prayers are with and your family. Big hugs.
Dear Tina ,
Your beautiful memories are what will carry you when you feel you can’t carry on. I think the love I had for my Mum all came back ( filled up with tears) as I read your blog. My Daddy was her caregiver too. Now he’s gone , and I know that love never dies. They are together again. You’re giving a fine testimony to your own sons about you ! Blessings for peace.
What a beautiful tribute to your Mother and a testament to your love of your parents. Having a father that had Alzheimer’s, it so sad to see them slip away.. You just have to believe she is a peace surrounded by other passed on loved ones.
So very sorry. You were blessed to have such a beautiful relationship with your mother. Cherish the memories and photos and carry on in her teachings and traditions. She lives on through you and your sister. My prayers are with you and your family as we approach the holy season of Christmas.
What a lovely post and tribute to your beautiful Mother. I lost my mother in a similar way in 2019. While the pain of loss slowly subsides, replaced by cherished memories, there are times when I will see a beautiful garden, or hear something that would make her laugh, and I almost reach for my phone to call her. At those times, I remind myself how incredibly lucky I was to have such an amazing mother. Sending comfort and hugs XOXO
Tina as I had said on the other post from last week I feel your pain having also lost a parent to Alzheimer’s. There is no disease that takes away our loved ones so wickedly as this one.
I hope that in due time, you will find peace knowing that she’s not suffering and feel grateful that you had such a long life to create so many beautiful memories. She sure was a beautiful and elegant lady and sounds like she had a heart that matched.
I can imagine how overwhelmed you must feel right now between the grief of your mom and the excitement of moving, congratulations on your move. Pace yourself and if it means having everything boxed up and sorting through it at your own pace once you move in, so be it! they say moving is one of the most emotional things a person can go through so take good care of yourself.
I look forward to hearing about your new home, God does work in mysterious ways and perhaps the timing is such that this will keep you very busy and to not spiral from the loss of your mother.
I am sending you my best wishes and keeping you and your family in my prayers.
A beautiful tribute to your mother and your father. Every parent should be so great and every child should be as wonderful as you. May your memories of her soon bring you a smile instead of tears.
Best wishes on your move. I will miss seeing your beautiful home. I’m confident that your new home will be beautiful and will become a joy for all of us to follow as you personalize it with your wonderful decorating ideas. Best wishes to you and your family.
Tina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I was able to see the love that your dad had and showed for your mother on many occassion as I frequently saw them on my daily walk. He was so gentle and kind.
Your mom is in your heart my friend, savor the memories and the time with your dad.
Take care, xo
Omg I’m overwhelmed with the tasks ahead for you. I did this downsizing in 2014. It’s such a process and mentally exhausting because of the memories around so so much. Good luck warrior princess.
What a beautiful tribute to your beautiful mother. You will be comforted by her when the pangs of hurt start to reside. Being so busy moving is good but you’ll relive her memories in each peace, so wrap, pack, cry. It actually may be cathartic for you. Wishes and blessings for you in your new home.
Tina,
I truly feel for you. I lost my dear mother, a saint also, six years ago and my dad three weeks ago. My only sibling, my younger brother, two years ago. I feel very alone. Please take care of yourself and focus on your dad and sister. As much as you love them and do for them, the time will come when you wished you did more. When they pass it feels like it was not enough. Perhaps you will feel differently but that is not my case. May God bless you and comfort you.
So very sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. As one who’s parents are both gone I can say that time helps but is a slow process. Focus on the wonderful life she led.
I am WAITING with “baited breath” to see and hear more about your NEW Abode !!! As a Military Brat who moved VERY often – I do not (let me repeat for those in the back – DO NOT) envy your current packing and upcoming move – UGH . BUT – there’s the future home awaiting your beautiful touch – and I for one cannot WAIT to see what’s in store (pun intended – lol)
Oh Tina,
I am so very sorry to read the news about the loss of your dear Mother! Losing family members whether they are humans or our furry friends is so heartbreaking. It takes a long time to live with the new. reality.
I may have missed a few posts, I am also packing to move two hours south to Richmond, VA. .I have soooo much stuff but I sure would love to dig through your dumpster!!
❤️ Ellen
Tina, I am so sorry that you lost your dear Mother, and are having a very hard time dealing with it. I did as well, and still do cry so hard at times, especially when I need her. I will keep you in my prayers! I hope that your move will help to lift your spirits.
Hugs and Blessings
Judy
What a beautiful tribute to your mother and I’m so very sorry for your loss, truly. My mother is 90 in January and each time I leave her I cry never knowing if it is the last time. It’s such a blessing in life to have a GOOD mother and one you can be friends with too! Losing those we love is so very hard…..when you love deeply, you grieve deeply. So be kind to yourself, let the tears come, feel the feelings…that is how you grieve well. God bless.
I wish good thoughts to you and your family. Strength comes in all sorts of loving memories. Recalling them is a gift and sharing that gift gives you the meaning of love first hand since you experienced it.
In viewing your dishes all I can say is I love dishes. Its like I can’t say no to the old patterns of Homer Laughlin before fiesta ware. Most sets are incomplete and some well used. And I find them at unusual places. Still looking and you have to collect something right?
Good luck with the move. As they say Been There Done That.
I never knew how much it hurts to lose your mother until I lost mine. No words can describe it. So very sorry for your loss.
Dear Tina, just now learning about the very sad passing of your precious, wonderful mother, and my heart is truly broken for you. Just by looking at the various pictures of her in different stages of her life, makes it so very evident of her fun-loving, unforgettable and elegant character. It speaks volumes to the way that you yourself were raised. May our Heavenly Father grant you, your dear earthly Father and your family much comfort and joy in your combined memories of her, until you meet again!
Tina,
So sorry for the loss of your precious mother.
God’s grace and your mothers love will be your strength,
Remember always she lives within you……
You are covered in love and prayers dear Tina.
Tina
I will cherish this blog. Your candour, for the loss of your mum has touched me so deeply. I to lost my precious mother, my best friend a few years ago and this blog has helped bring forward my very special memories of her, my personal Angel.
Good luck with the move. I look forward to seeing photos of your new home.
I just read your blog explaining your mom’s death. I extend my sincere condolences to you and your family. I can empathize with all you shared. I certainly hope you will take care off yourself. Your love for her is very evident!!
It has been 8 years since my lovely mother died at 951/2; I miss her very much; and in 10 days it will be her birthday. I still remember when I started reading your blog….I was home recuperating from surgery and you were beginning to decorate you house from which you are moving.
So, please accept this comment that I send you with my support and prayers.
Oh, Tina, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing our mothers is so difficult!
Tina, thanks for sharing those lovely pictures of your Mom and Dad. Hold on to all those precious memories. We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your precious Mom — and look forward to moving to your lovely new home. It is so much for you right now. We are happy that you have found a beautiful home to move into. Bless you!
God bless you and your family.
Oh, my, I am a bit overwhelmed by those details of packing and moving right on top of your grief work! Please allow time and space for yourself. On the other hand, keeping physically busy can be therapeutic for you. Do allow your team as much physical responsibility as you can spare. Don’t get sick this winter!
Please know our hearts weep with yours…my mom, too…insidious disease…franki
Sincere condolences to you. It’s so hard.
Tina,
Please accept my sincere sympathy on the passing of your lovely mother. The timing of your upcoming move will help you to move forward as well as keep your mind on other pressing things. Your mother would most likely want you to focus on this. While it is perfectly natural to grieve and that process is different for everyone, you will probably find your days whizzing by and your sleep (because of exhaustion) most welcoming! I am lifting you and your family in my prayers for God’s comfort and peace
Tina what an absolutely beautiful and moving tribute to your beautiful mother. I can see the love in your parents eyes what an elegant couple they made.
I lost my parents just four months apart, it was devastating but I can promise you with faith and choosing to honor their memory by focusing on the good memories it will get you through Even started going to church not necessarily every Sunday but at least once or twice a month and that has helped a great deal.
God bless you and your family
Amy P. from Pasadena
Deepest sympathy Tina. Such a sad and stressful time. Be gentle on yourself, emotionally and physically it is a lot all at once. Best wishes for a beautiful new chapter in your next home. Best wishes from Australia.
My dearest Tina
I am thinking of you and all your family, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother, Mimi. All your tributes and the very personal family pictures have touched me very deeply and I feel honored that you have shared them. How proud she was of you, and your own lovely family, you were the light of her life. I can remember that enchanted Christmas party you gave, when your parents were there. I hope and pray those memories and feelings will comfort you in the weeks and months to come. I hope that you can take the grief a day at a time, and look after yourself darling no matter how much you have to do.
It was all because of your Enchanted Home that I met you all those years ago, and it will always be a magical place to me. One of the most exquisite houses I have ever seen, a true inspiration, a masterpiece. I will miss so very much
But our lives move on and of course I am delighted for you and Michael to have a lovely new home. I wish you peace and happiness there, where new memories will be made….. I am just wondering….maybe it is near water.
Thinking of you always and sending my condolences
and very fond love
Sallyxx
Cherish the memories!! She is so beautiful, and elegant!
There is a book by Diets. Life after loss. Your family may find helpful! So sorry for your loss.
The move may be the best thing for you now. Keeping busy is the best distraction.
Oh my goodness! Moving in the midst of grief, I can barely comprehend. I’m so sorry and pray you will find some comfort knowing you have many continuing to hold you close in thought and prayer🙏💙🙏 blessings, Grace and peace be unto you, dear one.
Sending prayers and good thoughts. I love the photo at Christmas time of your mom. She looks lovely.
A busy mind and body can be helpful when we’re going through a difficult time.
Kudos to you! You are taking that step that so many of us know is inevitable and Yet is one of the hardest to do. Looking forward to seeing your new home as you settle in. One thing is for certain, it will be fabulous with your wonderful eye for interior design. Ps Thank you for sharing photos of your attic. It made me feel good. I’m not alone! Take care.
So sorry for your loss, mothers are so tied to daughters as friends, confidant and always the first person you want to share news with. It is a terrible loss and so important to spend the last days with them if you possibly can. You will heal and you will find yourself remembering those last days with her as a healing tool. Packing up a home is also very emotional and difficult and physically exhausting. Take care of yourself and your dad, he will need you and your sister.
Bless you….you will carry your mother with you the rest of your life way down deep in your heart….she will always be there with you and you will feel her presence.
Tina… thank you for sharing your sadness and great loss with us. It makes it seem so normal for those of us who have been down this road ahead of you. Our Mom is a treasure God gives to each of us … we just don’t realize her impact until she’s gone. Sending you prayers of strength 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
May your memories help sustain you and allow your heart to heal . Sending condolences and hugs during this most difficult time in your life . Remember to give yourself grace .
You have such a wonderful heart & so many cherished memories which are such blessings…We are blessed for your sharing your heart with us…
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Mother. You have my deepest condolences.
So sorry to hear of your dear Mother’s passing. She sounds like the most wonderful Mother and truly good person. You are blessed to have had her as your Mum and you will carry with you all the wisdom and love that she gave to you. Sending you Love and Light at this very difficult time.
My Mom had dementia for 5 years bebore passing. The final 2 weeks spending with her I felt was her final gift to us her family. We are a large family 9 remaining siblings. We have not spent so much time together in 49 years. We got to enjoy each other while saying goodbye to our Mom who had become at widow at 46 with 10 children. We loved her greatly and her life of self sacrifice for her family. In Christ we know that we have eternity together life is but a blink in comparison. Send love and prayers
Dear Tina, I am so sorry about your mother. I have lost mine. You feel like you have a giant gaping wound in your whole
being. Your mother was adorable. Your memory of being with her will get sweeter as time goes by. You will never stop wanting to call her.
Praying the memories of your beautiful mother will stay strong in your heart and mind for years. Her legacy will live on forever in you, your sister, your children and future generations.
Very sorry for your loss. May God’s peace, comfort, and strength cover you during this difficult time.
God will provide you with the strength that you need.
Lots of special pictures of you mom — I’m sure she was a lovely person. So hard . . . . God Bless
Tina,
I am so sorry about your lose. Losing a parent no matter their age or yours is so difficult!
Be kind to yourself during this grieving time. I am sorry you have to work so hard because of the move but maybe a good distraction!
May your Mother rest in piece!
Love never ends, Your precious mother will live on in you and your boys, in your sister and your niece, and in all the lives you touch. Praying for you and your family.
I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my mom when I was 32. I look forward to seeing your new home. We downsized two years ago to 1,800 square feet. Got rid of tons of stuff, it is very freeing, Good luck in your move.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Mom. I lost my Mom last week to ovarian cancer, and to say I’m struggling is an understatement. Grief is hard and confusing. This is not a club I wanted to join, but do look forward to your future updates. We’ve got this ❤️
Tina what a beautiful tribute to your mom! She was a very beautiful lady and sounds like her heart was just as beautiful as that is what matters most. Have been thinking of you and praying for you during this time. As over whelming as the moving will be at least it will keep your mind occupied during this hard time. Bless you
Dear Tina,
I’m so sorry for what you are going through with your mom’s passing. It’s a very difficult time for you and your family, but it was wonderful that you were able to be there on her last days, and that you have such great memories of her.
I lost my mother to cancer 11 years ago, and I still can hear her laugh, and her voice telling me something. I feel very fortunate that I took care of her and had her in my home for her last four years of life.
I pray that time brings you peace and comfort to know that you were there with her at the end.
My deepest condolences,
Lucy
My heartfelt condolences Tina. “In another home, a happier place, a beautiful forever, you will be together again”….