Hello and happy very early morning to you. A VERY happy birthday to my eldest son, so proud of that kid (yes to me he is still a kid though he’s 29)!!
Guess there are perks after all, of waking up at 4:30 and not being able to get back to sleep:) Sometimes I like to connect with my readers on a different level, beyond all the pretty fluff and let’s face it- pretty fluff is so much fun!! But there are times that other things are on my mind and I am always curious to take the pulse of others out there.
While I do not expect that all will agree, and will always respect other opinions, I do wonder if how I am feeling is in the majority or not, which is one reason I started those little polls on Sunday. It gives me great insight and it’s always nice to know my feelings have lots of company!
One recent story that has really gotten under my skin is this Colin Kaepernick taking the knee. Perhaps it is because I have a father who had a distinguished navy career and who devoted his life to serving our great country. Or maybe just because I am an American who feels incredibly lucky to have the freedom and liberties that so few do.
Yes we are the land of the free…but I wonder has that very freedom been exploited and that privilege been used to disrespect the country that gave it? All I can say it’s a good thing I am not a college dean or professional football coach because I would be dismissing kids left and right….yes I guess I would be making the 5 o’ clock news on a regular basis lol.
If he really feels so strongly about the inequality of our country , there are so many other ways he can channel his energies and moral convictions, that will actually HELP people. His taking a knee during the National Anthem does absolutely nothing to help anyone except his own notoriety.
He says “this is bigger than football’ so maybe if he feels so strongly about it, he should forfeit his multi million dollar contract and devote himself to a more noble cause of working full time on equality for all.
This to me below says it all-
Powerful and drives the point home. OK……your turn to talk! I look forward to hearing what you have to say:) Thank you for stopping by, I promise tomorrow is a return to the pretty fluff:) Until then…..
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Tina. I could not agree with you more. Unfortunately, as my mama would say, some of these people have gotten a little too big for their britches! We throw millions of dollars at them and they do not have the character to handle it, or the fame that comes with it. I am so very grateful every day to fly my American flag and honor what it stands for, and honor the men and women who have fought for me (and this self seeking football player). If he feels like their are injustices that he needs to stand up for, seek real solutions, not a “moment in the limelight” that dishonors our country. All the best to you on this Tuesday.
THANK YOU. I completely agree with everything you said. If he really and truly wanted to make a change, there are many productive things he could do while not being in the limelight.
Funny, my husband is a civil liberties attorney who practices constitutional law, he has worked with and on behalf of the NAACP so he is very sensitive to the plight of those who feel disenfranchised but even he said this is absurd.
I agree also. So many take for granted the freedoms we exercise everyday. We should be grateful and not take it for granted. I am so offended by the lack of respect not standing for the national anthem that I would probably be on the news for firing or expelling the individuals as well. I grew up during a time of change, civil rights movement Vietnam War ect. and feel very strongly about patriotism. I don’t know if it is lack of experience, or ignorance that motivate these individuals, but they have obviously never read history or traveled out of the country. Otherwise they the would recognize what they take for granted. Yes, I too love your beautiful blog; I want to make my little part of the world as beautiful as possible, but the world goes on around us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
I remember after 9/11 how America came together and the pride I felt for my country at a very dark time. How we got so far away from our pride I’ll never know. Kaepernick is simply someone that grew up with complete lack of home training. Just sad!
AMEN! Thank you for posting your sentiments. I’m just so tired of reading about Colin K. and how other athletes have followed suit. Unfortunately people today are so far removed from what others have sacrificed to afford us our freedoms that this country. People need to get educated and at the same time realize it’s not all about them!
Everyone chiming agrees…me too. My mother and father and former husband are all veterans. My father in law too. Maybe it’s my heritage that makes me honor our military, maybe I am overly aware of their sacrifices….whatever it is,every day I am PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN and wave the flag each chance I get. I am a recent reader of your blog, have ordered blue and white vases…should arrive today….and I love it all. Thank you for your fluff and your serious side too.
So well-said!!! I completely agree. I wish more people like you would speak up for what is right instead of trying to call attention to themselves. Thank you for standing up for our great nation and the people who keep it that way.
You hit the nail on the head! Agree 100%. This country has given people the opportunity to be who they want to be: you only have to take advantage of it and work hard.. I have no patience for those who denigrate those who have given limbs and lives by insulting our national anthem.
If those athletes are not happy here, they have the option and capability to leave. No one will forcibly detain them as in other countries.
He has the right to do it,however there are many ways he could get his point across without kneeling or raising a fist. I blame the NFL. They fine players exhorbatant amounts of money for wearing cleats they don’t like,but let this
Jerk and his kind get away with this disgusting display.
The NFL has rules so I don’t understand how they let people get away with this, I guess this is not one of them. Mr. Kaepernick collects his 12 million a year for this. I say follow the rules or go home. Our flag does not represent him in any way, his 15 minutes of fame will fade, let’s hope soon. Thanks
Very well said, Tina. The disrespect for our great nation, its’ traditions and values, so commonly demonstrated among so many, tells me that failures in character training happened in the home, schools and just about everywhere else. So sad for us all. We could all use a refresher course in GRATITUDE!
I totally respect and admire your stand on this issue. It speaks volumes about you!
Youth is certainly wasted on the young as they say!
Athletes as a group generally use their fame to better a cause with the utmost respect. Age has a way of opening our minds. Unfortunately guidance is missing here!
Love for America must live in our hearts and be taught to our children!
I come from a Marine Corps family and have served multiple deployments on the front lines in Middle East war zones over the last 20 years. I have spent my life defending Kaepernick’s right to protest in any way he sees fit.
I can also tell you that many front line officers & grunts are very jaded about the flag waving and pandering to patriotism we see, however well-intentioned it may be, and however grateful we are for your support.
You write from a position of immense wealth and privilege, and the chances that your own sons will end up in the military are slim.
I respect your opinion and you should respect Kaepernick’s. His word view and experience are vastly different from yours, and you have a right to protest his actions.
But before you suggest he’s un-American (and remember this country is founded on protest) I would urge you to consider that the day may come when you will feel the need to publicly protest, and will be grateful for the right.
I personally am grateful to Kaepernick for exercising his right to protest and calling attention to an issue that affects many; it makes me think I spent two decades fighting for the basic rights of democracy, and not just to act as a surrogate for the 98% of Americans who never put themselves at risk and never question what drives a successful man like Kaepernick to make himself so vulnerable to criticism for the sake of legitimate protest.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions Tina. I agree with you 100%! His actions show tremendous disrespect and his employers are a disappointment.
Well said. I totally agree with you. Every time I see our American Flag I am filled with so much pride. America is the home of the brave and the land of the free–STAND up and be proud of this wonderful country.
I completely agree with you! I’m with you, I would probably be on the news too for constantly firing players, this madness has to stop!
God Bless America!
I too could not agree with you more. I love this country with every ounce of my being. I come from a U.S. Marine family and know the sacrifices the military makes for each of us. I cannot stand watching these people disrespect our country. My answer to them is to turn off the NFL completely and not watch at all until they do something about this. I find it so offensive that the NFL charged the US military for years to show their colors at every football game, but will not do anything about this.
I agree 100% with you. He needs to channel his frustration, energy and funds into helping those in need. My husband and I, who normally watch football on Sundays, start the games and if anyone takes a knee, we turn it off. I refuse to support a team who’s management allows this travesty.
If a person doesn’t like an aspect of something, be a part of the solution, otherwise you’re a part of the problem.
While I too find it a disrespectful gesture, it is his right. However, if he strongly believes in this inequality, what does taking a knee do other than make us talk about it.
I guess I do not see this inequality as he seems to. After all we have a black president and many blacks in positions of power, sports. Look where he is for goodness sake.
I live in the Deep South. I do not see the evidence here as he states. What I do see is lots of crime being black on black. Where’s the outrage to try to put a stop to this? It seems to me that these particular kind of inequalities must be challenged with a greater energy.
I couldn’t have expressed it better. Thank you for your post. I only wish some of our politicians could read it! Perhaps there are also some parents raising children who need to read it as well so that they can instill this in their children. This country is going in the wrong direction so quickly that it is frightening and there is a very limited amount of time to change the course. At 65, the values I was raised with seem not to apply anymore and I find it very sad.
I agree with you completely. He has the right to protest. Many have given their lives so he can do just that. But I would like to suggest that instead of “taking the knee” he should get down on both knees, bow his head and thank God he was born in a country where he is free to express himself. Personally I think the media hype would be for an entirely different reason and isn’t that just sad?
Well said, Tina! I totally agree and many of us are fed up with those who do not appreciate the privileges they enjoy being Americans. If this isn’t the best place to live in the world, why are so many risking their lives to get here. If they truly feel strongly, they should do something positive.
Bless you and thank you for having the courage to speak up. Its not politically correct (disgusting thought) to speak up for what we as a country paid a Hugh price to have. What was right is now wrong and what was wrong is now right. The national press goes into a feeding frenzy and then every person looking for fifteen minutes of fame are shown disrespecting our country that GOD gave us. Disrespect is shown in every form because people think that because we have the right to disrespect that we should do it without consequences.
I loved your post and am so impressed with the comments shared by your readers above. Thank you for your courage to share your thoughts and disdain for the refrain of disrespect against the best nation on earth. And I am totally with the woman above who wrote about people not respecting our anthem — my kids have always been taught to stop everything when they hear it, stand with handover heart, and appreciate the words of that powerful song … as my mom,the WWII immigrant and naturalized US citizen, taught me!
To the Veteran who wrote “(and remember this country is founded on protest)” how very sad I am for you. This country was founded on God and the freedom to worship him. You have chosen our escape from religious oppression as the basis of our country’s founding and not the glorious freedom we achieved to worship freely. This freedom has been forgotten and drummed out of society by radicals of the 60’s and 70’s. It has taken these people and so many uninformed people of the history of the founding of this great country, 50 years to destroy our moral core. I thank God my Grandfather, World War I Veteran and my Father , World War II Veteran, who taught me, in this order, to love GOD, FAMILY, COUNTRY. This belief brings peace to my heart and I sincerely wish everyone in this Country would choose the higher moral ground instead of the ME GENERATION!
Amen and Amen! God bless this wonderful country of ours. Yes, we have freedom of speech, but there is a time, place and right way to voice our freedom. Disrespecting the national anthem and flag is not the right way. This type of protest disrespects the brave men and women who have fought for our freedom. I sincerely doubt any of these protesters would join any branch of the military.
Bad form from the person above who hides under the protective clause of “Veteran.” Shaming the host of the forum and her family is not only disrespectful, but striking low. Tina’s “immense wealth and privilege” has nothing to do with her perspective on this issue, nor on the decision of her sons to serve or not to serve in the military. Wealth building comes from very hard work and perservence. Perhaps Mr. Kapernick would agree with this assessment.
I think that most of us have never experienced the type of racism that Kaepernick is trying to bring attention to. Most military and veterans I have heard speak about it, have defended his right to do what he is doing. He is peacefully trying to make a point and I have heard that he is donating a million dollars to help the cause and recently he and his wife donated 60,000$ to buy backpacks for needy kids. Standing for the flag is certainly something we like to do to honor the sanctity of it, but it is also easy. It requires no sacrifice or much effort. Taking a stand and creating a conflict to try to bring about change for the better is no less patriotic in my opinion. Sure, he makes a good living now, but I am guessing he did not grow up wealthy and has seen his share of inequality.
Agree 100%! For a person to be “privelidged” enough to receive a college education and go on to receive a job, in my opinion, in an overly paid industry in our great country, makes me think our society has turned a direction. It seems rules of civility and morals are challenged today. Just because, you can behave or say whatever you wanted due to free speech, does not, mean you should do so.
My father was a Korean War veteran, my father-in-law a WWII veteran, and I thank God often I had the parents I had! Capernick SEEKS ATTENTION and is paid to do so! Perhaps we should pay our military personnel and our men and women in blue like we pay our athletes and people in the media, then we might flip the tables on them, see if they still want to take the risks for the rewards!
Let’s start giving positive attention to those that deserve it, not highly paid athletes, they PLAY, in a GAME.
I am so disheartened when I read your comments and the comments of the majority of your loyal readers. In my opinion, all of you (with the exception of Veteran) are missing the point of CK’s protest.
Our country is founded on freedom and one of the most important freedoms we enjoy is that of free speech.
It is obvious to me, based on the comments that I read here, the demographic that reads your blog – including myself. Upper middle class, white women. Our worlds can be very small and many of us are very reluctant to truly try to see life from others’ point of view. Our lives are very comfortable and we don’t want to get into anything messy.
I am feeling that our country is about to boil over on the subject of race. So many of you have stated that what CK is doing is not making any difference and is inconsequential. Again I disagree. What he is doing has garnered a lot of attention and I believe his intent in his peaceful protest is to start conversations about race in our country.
One of my favorite authors is Steven Covey and in his book, “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” one of the habits is: “Seek first to understand, and then to be understood.” This can be a very difficult concept to master for many of us. When most of us are having a difficult conversation, instead of really listening to what the other person is saying, we are thinking about how we are going to respond.
I believe that it is so important at this time in our country to seek to understand others. It is my heartfelt wish that ALL people would look deep inside ourselves and really examine our prejudices and how we relate to people who are different than we are. Do we really try to understand their life and their history?
We are obviously not always going to agree because our perspectives come from such different life experiences, but can we try? Can we start trying to talk to one another and try to educate ourselves about what other people’s lives and experiences are really all about?
If we don’t, I’m worried about our future! I had a conversation just this week with a young woman originally from a foreign country. She has been in this country for a long time and has attained her US citizenship. She told me that coming to this country and becoming a US citizen was her dream. But now she feels that she’s not sure she wants to stay here because “the USA is becoming a scarey place”. I have no intention of leaving my home but I agree with her and that the USA is becoming a scary place and that makes me really sad.
I think the coach & owners should have players return to the locker room if the players choose not to participate. … instead the media gives attention and these days you can become famous for being disrespectful…. if we as a country don’t stand for something, we will fall for anything … sad!
Thank you for not being afraid to say where you stand! I often feel the problem in this country is that the silent majority is not being heard. Thanks for letting your voice be heard.
Tina – 100% agree. Not on the disrespect to our country, but to his teammates & coaches and what about his parents? I did hear (not sure if this is true or not) that less people are viewing the games this year because of this. Is this true or not, I do not know. I do know he should not be allowed to do that. In the NFL they have a rule for everything – maybe they never thought this needed to be a “rule”. Show respect at the game, for the country for which you play. Respect for the fans – who without – you’d be nothing. Obviously, this is MY opinion, and others won’t (don’t) agree. Thanks for bringing this up – I loved reading the other comments. Interesting to see the majority agree with you.
My husband is retired military with a purple heart so yes I totally agree with you . It bought tears to my eyes to see the vet in the chair, we need a reminder we do not have all these privileges without a cost to others, so this man kneeling is a total disrespect in our eyes. Here in Georgia they are standing and linking arms which is far far better idea. It signifies a unity for all.
What a wonderful and brave post, Tina. I have heard my husband and college son discuss this often and the way they believe the NFL should handle this. While the player has a right to do this, the franchise, as a private entity, has the ability to stop it . My husband is a Navy veteran who spent 7 years on submarines. He attended college and law school on the GI Bill. We are proud to be a patriotic family. Standing for the flag is the least we can do.
Hi Tina, I rarely comment but obviously this hit a nerve with a lot of people including me. I am with you, my feeling is that this young man was born in the greatest country on earth and through good genes and opportunity he had the chance to earn tens of millions of dollars doing what the loves, never having to sacrifice anything greater than a sports injury.
To snub his nose at our anthem is to snub his nose at all those men and women who serve and put their lives on the line every single day so he can earn his millions and play football. He is a disgrace to our country. I would respect him far more if he started some kind of a grassroots group or peaceful protest if he was inclined but to take a stand that insults and tears down the very people who make what he does possible infuriates me.
My husband a college professor (and much more liberal) does not completely agree with me. He says it is his right which it is however my feeling as a 51 year old who is a proud American is that we as a country have gone too far in our politically correct movement. This madness has to stop. My kids (twins that are 17) both think it is wrong and they have discussed it in their classes with their teachers, the consensus even among that generation is what Colin is doing is akin to stepping on the American flag.
Ending on a happy note, got my silver and porcelains yesterday and it was like Christmas, everything was way more beautiful in person! Thnak you.
I’m with you, Tina, and I admire your courage in putting your feelings out there. We have stopped watching football. I am horrified to see high school cheerleaders taking the knee as well as kids all over. All sports figures could try to be better role models for the young of this country, but instead we see the nonsense of a bunch of overpaid buffoons. Again, good for you.
Thank you, Tina. It is refreshing to be able to hear reason and common sense expressed by you and most of your followers. “God bless America, land that I love. Stand beside her and guide her through the NIGHT, with a LIGHT from above.” Honor and respect for what American patriots do and have done should never be negotiable.
I completely agree with you, Tina. We are so blessed to live in this great country. It sickens me to see people disrespect the freedom and values that so many have fought for.
Agree with you Tina. Spoiled,
Inconsiderate people. Don’t
Seem to realize the gift of being born American. Service people learn respect, for the most part. Do we need the draft?
First of all, I have to say a heart felt “thank you” for your above comment! I’ve never commented on your blog; I’ve just enjoyed all your postings and photos, creative ideas and all the fabulous travel pix! Truly wonderful.
Now for the serious stuff: My father was a Colonel (at 32) in the United States Air Force and was very proud of his 30 year military career as a meteorologist, graduating from Cal Tech. From 1942 to 1946 he was stationed in England during all the London bombings and saw many, many horrors. He came home to Texas a changed man….I wish I could have known him before the war. It saddens me to see anyone not giving due respect to our flag, country or service people. I can remember when JFK said ” ask not what your country can do for you, but ask what can YOU do for your country”…Sadly we don’t hear that anymore.
Amen to your post! And thank you to all the brave men and women who serve and put their lives on the line and sometimes give them with so little gratitude shown to them and their families!
Thank you for standing up! I love this country and the freedoms we so often take for granted. I feel good knowing that so many feel as strongly…maybe I’m overly sentimental, but I get chills when I hear our national anthem; I’m a proud American who was, and am very upset each time I see an athlete take a knee.
Being legally right does not mean it’s morally right. Are we teaching our children and immigrants to disrespect our country? Some have become so liberal in their thoughts and actions that anything goes even to the degree that they burn the flag. To the person that’s thinks our country is scary she should go to Europe, a wonderful place to visit, and hear what their citizens are saying about their country that is truly scary. Did your ever stop to think that God put us in a place surrounded by oceans on two sides to separate us from the upheaval of the eastern countries?
Good Morning, Tina~
Thank you for your brave stance on this issue. I have read all the above about right to protest and freedom of speech. I know that there are racial issues in our country and in some areas they are immense — why is it that the people in positions of media and fame do not work to empower and educate those most affected by racial injustices? I agree with Kaepernick’s freedom of speech rights, but is that the only freedom he is so publicly enjoying? What about the freedom to live each day enjoying the privilege of life as he chooses? I believe it is disrespect to dishonor our national flag and anthem — so many lives have been lost to protect both. Why not go to work to help the inner city youth — why not use his public persona to speak to those so affected and tell them that “protest ” is fine — but there has to be positive action on their own parts as well.
Many prayers for all of us … we do live in the greatest country on earth — God Bless America.
What is making the USA a “scary place” (as mentioned above) is the disrespect that some interpret as “freedom of speech”. I am sick and tired of people who think that having the right means they can tear down whatever is not in line with how they feel. Kaepernick can go to any other country on the face of the earth if he is unhappy here. Or, maybe he should STAND UP and MAN UP!
Tina,
I agree with you. I have left out and hanging on my entry hall console my favorite 4th of July swag decoration. It simply spells out “AMERICA.” I decided we could use a little more emphasis on patriotic pride this year. We’re not perfect, but we are so blessed to have the freedoms we have.
I agree…. The National Football League should mandate respect for The National Anthem!!
Kaepernick is striving to take the stand (sic) and be the voice for his Black Lives Matter girlfriend!!
It’s disgusting to me… he has a life of privilege… with all his NFL millions. I say this too about the Hollywood’s liberals who are paid 20 million per project…where are the shelters and inner city outreach programs they have developed with their millions and free time?
What bothers me most about the victim stance is that while they are professing such injustice, many…not all.. but many continue to engage in the behaviors that brought the police in the first place. I live in Charlotte and witnessed this destruction just a few weeks ago.
Out nation is more divided than ever…and it seems the militant postures will continue until the White House changes.
The NFL has a lot of problems with fans now. Ironically they will police uniform standards…but not standards of conduct…go figure. But until they feel the pain in the pocket from apathetic fans… nothing will change.
I have very mixed feelings about this. I remember one of my all time favorite Historical Sociology Professors saying the greatest freedom we have is the right to burn the American Flag. Her argument is that in other countries citizens can’t even speak negatively about their country or leaders for fear of being executed or imprisoned. Our government proves that US citizens have the right to free expression because nothing will be done to them if they choose to burn the flag, or choose not to stand or salute the flag. My conflict is due to not knowing if this will actually result in positive change or is just a publicity stunt. The only way to assure more equity and the equal application of law in this country is to participate in public office, transparency in political financing, volunteering at schools, helping the poor with opportunities in education and the workforce. Simply sitting or kneeling when the National Anthem is played does none of this. I don’t know if Collin or any of the other individuals kneeling do or have volunteered or worked to resolve the systemic inequality at all levels of our society, so I can’t criticize them. I don’t see this issue as an either or, but one that needs to be addressed and worked on for the majority of our citizens. I think it’s great that you have opened your blog up to discussions like this — thanks!
Of course, you are so right and I totally agree. Cannot imagine the NFL allowing this, especially in light of the fact that my hero, Tom Brady, got suspended for being “generally aware” of something.
The football field is revered to many of us. The players, especially the quarterbacks, are known to almost everyone. I think he’s gotten attention for sure, but it’s the wrong kind of attention. Imagine how many other different ways he could have made his point. However, he knew for certain his way would generate much conversation, even though it has made him a vile figure otherwise.
Agree 100%. While he has a right to act like a punk, thanks to living in this great country, his behavior sickens me and if I were his boss I would demand an end to this shameful behavior or fire him. All companies have rules.
Thanks for starting this dialogue.
hi tina, I LOVE THIS POST!
IMNSHO, anyone who doesn’t like it here (i mean this glorious US of A), is welcome to live somewhere else, and please, don’t let the backdoor hit their a** on the way out.
p.s. reading through earlier comments, i just want to add that i am neither a white woman nor upper middle class.
what i am is a very grateful naturalized citizen and one who is proud to call herself AMERICAN (please, leave the political correct hyphen-race at the door!).
It is his right only because of the sacrifice of others. No one has questioned his new look and the reason for it. I and none of my friends would ever purposely hurt anyone in word or action. That said I am soooo tired of PC especially when only certain ones of us must be PC. Our family refuses. We love our country and it is the best in the world. Unfortunately it’s being sold or given away faster than most can even imagine. Society is so complacent or dumbed down they can’t see that yes he has the right but like you said, who does it help? The country is so distracted by idiots that they can’t or won’t see how many of our rights are being taken away every day and given to terrorists who’s only goal is our death. It only took 4% of Germans in WWII to kill millions. Where does that leave us today when there are over 100 million extremists who want us dead or under their control? As a Mom with 3 daughters that scares me to death, So let C.K. take his knee. Remember it’s his right! But showing such disrespect for our flag, our country and those who died for it doesn’t hurt us or help anyone except for those who look up to celebraties…..especially kids. Oh and C.K at least you have a knee and…..ALL LIVES MATTER!
I agree with you completely! I too had a father that served in World War II as a Marine, came home a tormented man but never complained. I am married to a Marine, and my youngest daughter recently married a Marine. I live in Midland Texas, home of George W. Bush. Our country has never been perfect, never will be. But if you can’t respect it, fight for it, and make it a better place, get off your knee and move to another country. Now.
I really appreciate your courage to speak your mind Tina. Have you seen the video by Tomi Lahren who destroys Colin Kaepernick brilliantly? If not you must see it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qq0_nyWVXCI
One of the most American rights is the right to publicly disagree with our government without fear of punishment. When I think of places without this right, I think of WWII Germany or more recently, North Korea.
I can imagine the subject of protest must be deeply important to this protestor. Choosing to not bend the knee to our flag is a difficult action, especially since we all love our flag so dearly. And who is to say the protestor does not love the flag any less than each of us?
So when I see a protestor doing something as simple as not standing for the pledge or not kneeling at a football game…acts that in any other country would land them in jail, or worse, killed, I do not take it as an affront to our flag or troops or to America. On the contrary, it is a reminder of just how great this country is that we CAN protest our government openly. It reminds me of how our veterans are protectors of the greatest freedoms in the world. It makes me even more proud to be an American.
the political climate is so complicated and distressing these days. thank you for so eloquently expressing your heart and mind. politics and religion? both are rarely present in design blogland, yet so integral. it has been hard for me to find my part in the midst of such division and lament in the country right now. i see myself as a peacemaker, a sort of reconciler who holds on to paradox. and that can be painful. i grieve for all sides and i don’t just take a knee in prayer, i try to live in prayer, hoping to be an instrument and a reflector of light, a mirror or a transmitter of sorts of the light i receive from the mystery beyond. it’s all i know to do. peace to you and to all of us struggling to come to terms with shifts in the culture and assaults on our values. love is going to make everything okay, and i still believe beauty can save the world. xox
CK’s right to protest is cemented in our Constitution. I consider his behavior childish and irresponsible; the NFL’s response is shortsighted and counterproductive. Both appear to be driven by fear of the PC police and its false narrative.
We, in turn, have the right to discontinue supporting the NFL by enjoying our football-free Sundays and not buying their merchandise. We counter their detrimental effects by raising informed and responsible children.
For those making assumptions, I am a naturalized, non-hyphenated American citizen who genuinely hopes none of the current protesters ever has to experience actual oppression.
“He says “this is bigger than football’ so maybe if he feels so strongly about it, he should forfeit his multi million dollar contract and devote himself to a more noble cause of working full time on equality for all.”
I agree!!!!
Does he think he could have the same salary working in another country? He should appreciate his God-given talent and all the perks comes with that gift. He is fortunate to have the talent that brings him an affluent lifestyle ,,,a job and lifestyle he would not have in another country.
You spoke for many of us. We are all Americans, and the warriors who defend our freedoms and fight for freedom all over the world are always to be respected. As should be, the brave warriors who defend our communities against those who break our laws and threaten our communities. Perhaps, in showing respect for these people, we all become warriors for respect, kindness and goodwill.
Oohhhh Tina! You hit a very sad spot! I agree completely with you!
My beloved Nephew, my sister’s son, was recently killed in a Black Hawk Helicopter Crash off of the Coast of Florida during a night training mission.
He was a graduate of The Naval Academy, Annapolis. After Graduation he accepted a commission as a Lieutenant in the Marines. He had 2 tours of Iraq & one Tour of Afghanistan. He came home safe to us.
He was a Captain with Special Ops. , a MARSOC Raider. (The Navy Seals of the Marines). He is now known as a Raider7. He went down with 6 of his Men! His name is Captain Stanford Henry Shaw III. He had a Fiancée who he met at The Naval Academy.
So you now know how I feel about the disrespect running rampant in this Country.
All gave some, Some gave all! We are changed forever & ever….
I’m sure you would love to read so much more about this amazing young man & you can google him by his name or Raider7. You will be amazed at the bravery of those 7 Marines. Never Above you, Never Below you, Always Beside you….
Thank you for being a strong woman not being afraid to speak your opinion and truth! I myself can relate! So, let me say, San Francisco is my home town, and I have many friends and family there. Having relocated now to PA 2 years ago, and living in a more “less liberal” location (if you will), our eyes are open to many other points of view. What he is expressing is disgusting and so unpatriotic to our roots as Americans. He did come from a lovely family outside of Modesto, CA (adopted into a white family, not that I think that really matters), and speaking with many of my SF area friends, he doesn’t have the support of the local community as one may think. I think its sad as its my hometown and the entire “black lives matter” movement has gotten so outrages! To support these people who loot and riot and have nothing better to do then waste tax payer dollars and risk the well being of our police force is unimaginable! I agree with many of your fellow followers that if he truly wanted to make a difference, there are numerous ways to make a contribution and/or help causes other then to “take a knee” which I find a disgrace to our GREAT NATION, which so many have given their lives to create for us all!
Agreed, and let me just say one thing. We don’t need to “make America great again” it already is GREAT! That includes our military, police, fire departments, medical staff, etc.
My dad spent 30 years defending our country, and my brother spent 15 years active military and is now in the reserves, as well as having a full time job that helps to keep this country safe. I liven a town that is primarily military, as was the town I moved from, these people and their families devote their lives to keep us safe. Get off your knees! There are other ways to protest what you think are injustices and this is not it.
Thanks Tina for having the courage to say what others won’t.
I am one of those immigrants Trump keeps railing against, and yes, as a legal Canadian alien, I have been ‘extremely vetted’. I also know the Pledge of Allegiance by heart and always stand with my hand over my heart when the National Anthem is played or the Pledge recited. How else was our American-born son going to learn to respect the flag?
Always frosts my pumpkins how too many American citizens like Kaepernick certainly know what their rights are – and are the first to scream ‘foul’ at any perceived violation of those rights – yet they always seem to be a bit fuzzy when it comes to their responsibilities/civic duty. Isn’t the first responsibility of citizenship to be a productive member of society, and to raise children to become the same?
I dare Kaepernick to join those who place the flags by the headstones in Arlington National Cemetery on November 11th. It is a sobering reminder why we should be grateful to those who have made the ultimate sacrifice in defense of our freedom.
I do not agree. What is he supposed to do, write his congressman? We must get real. He has the enviable position of being able to reach an audience on a topic that is relevant, and this is a pivoting point of time we are living in. Plant the issue firmly in front of the audience.
Hi Tina, I rarely comment, but I feel I have to speak up, I came from a privileged family, I have traced my family back to the May flower and a family member in the military in every war, protecting America, and our freedom, but there are many here in America that feel they are not as free, and rightfully so, going out to a movie, or coming from church, maybe Grampa going fishing, they are stopped, harassed, and sometimes shot, this is happening more often now, all because of their color, this young athlete used this most opportune time and place to bring it to our attention and reach as many people as possible I don’t believe he was disrespecting our flag, it is his flag too, many of his family and friends have served in the military, are we listening? he is protesting in a very peaceful way, his right to, thankyou Tina for giving all of us the opportunity to speak
Tina, I totally agree….thanks for expressing your thoughts. I’m tired of the disrespect for this great country. I love your blog and how you make each of our lives a little brighter!
Thank you!!
Tina I love your blog, however I am particularly astonished at the comments referencing ” individuals & their kind” and the invitation to just leave OUR country if we disagree. I can only respond by saying “walk a mile ” in someone else’s shoes. We ALL built America & this country belongs to ALL of us, including those who recognize that America has flaws. Many do not feel warm and fuzzy when the National Anthem is sung. Peaceful demonstration is perfectly appropriate–uncomfortable for some, never the less appropriate. I have 3 earned degrees including doctoral degree from some of the “finest” universities in the US & have taught in those hallowed halls. Many of my relatives have served in the military–some in the segregated military. My spouse played in the segregated NFL–as late as the early 70s the men of different races could play together, but were expressly prohibited from rooming together. He was kidnapped by a racist who searched for a place to hang him before he escaped. My law abiding in laws had crosses burned in their yards. In the late 60s I entered establishments through back doors & used ” colored only” bathrooms while working & attending university in the South. We are a great nation with a difficult history and we all know there is still much to do. I have heard far too many hard working men of color including our President referred to as “boys”. Kneeling is the least that young MAN can do.
I don’t see his actions in that light. The national anthem belongs to all of us, as committed citizens, and not just the military members. We are all patriots in our own right, just by contributing to a good society and working to make things good for everyone. My Dad was at Pearl Harbor when it was attacked (and survived), so my family has sacrificed as much as any.
Thank you for you opinion on this. I agree with Veteran who posted above. It’s past time we stopped worshiping a flag or a song and started honoring The United States and the constitution, which gives everyone the right to protest. Where is the outrage over what this athlete and others are trying o bring attention to? I too come from a family with both a strong military and strong law enforcement background. Love of this country, rather than of a piece of fabric or a song, move me to support protest and freedom of expression.
When people protest in the streets, sometimes violently, we often see hand wringing people saying “protest is fine but do it peacefully!” He is protesting peacefully and now people are complaining about that. Protest does not threaten our republic in any way but refusing to allow protest threatens it in every way.
I see both sides but honestly I lean more towards his “seeemingly” disrespect for our country and service men/women. It is an ignorant way to protest, as you said there are MANY more effective ways where he could actually help someone. What will taking a knee do exactly other than land him on the cover of Time magazine?
We have a time where we have a black president so obviously our country has made significant strides. I am half Spanish and have experienced certain degrees of discrimination despite the fact that I hold multiple advance degrees and have taught at a nationally ranked university. Inequality is here and has been woven into our history, I am not going to dispute that.
However, in my estimation we are making strides forward, we have a woman up for president and will be saying goodbye to a 2 term black president, if that is not strides then what is?
It is up to each and every one of us to keep a positive and proactive dialog going, thank you for allowing each of us to express ourselves in a respectful manner.
Thank you to Veteran, Citizen, and the others for their opposing views with which I agree.
On my father’s side of the family, I have long history military service and on my mother’s side, a very recent history of immigration to the US from several countries without freedoms. From both sides I have learned that freedom is at its best when it is, in fact, unfettered and free — and, like love, unconditional.
People should be focussed on the message of awareness and need for a conversation around the issue instead of being distracted by the act of kneeling. It seems folks have just dug in to their existing bias’ instead of being open for an honest discussion. I too am from a military family and they all salute his right because this is the land of the free and home of the brave.
I could not agree with you more. As a mom of three sons, two of whom play D1 College Sports, I am amazed that colleges and other institutions turn a blind eye to such actions. However, one recent memo was written by William H. McRaven, Chancellor of The University Of Texas System to Presidents and Athletic Directors of all fourteen institutions in the Univeristy of Texas System. The memo reads as follows:
As most of you recall, last January I sent out a letter asking you to encourage your coaching staff and your players to stand up straight when the National Anthem was played. I requested that the coaches and the players “face the flag and place their hand over their heart as a
sign of respect to the nation.”
I made it clear that honoring the flag does not imply that the republic
for which it stands is perfect. I said, “Far from it, honoring the flag is our
collective commitment that we will constantly attempt to get better as a
nation, to improve as a people, and to use the freedoms we have been given to make the earth a better place.”
I spent 37 years defending freedom of speech and freedom of expression. Nothing is more important to this democracy. Nothing! However, while no one should be compelled to stand, they should recognize that by sitting in protest to the flag they are disrespecting everyone who sacrificed to make this country what it is today – as imperfect as it might be.
Those that believe the flag represents oppression should remember all the Americans who fought to eliminate bigotry, racism, sexism, imperialism, communism, and terrorism. The flag rode with the Buffalo Soldiers of the 9th, 10th, 24th and 25th Cavalry and Infantry Regiments.
It was carried by the suffragists down the streets of New York City. It flew with the Tuskegee Airman of WWII. It was planted in the fields where Cesar Chavez spoke. It marched with Martin Luther King Jr. It rocketed into space on the shoulder patches of women, gays, Hispanic, Asian, and African-American astronauts. Today, it waves high over the
White House. It is a flag for everyone, of every color, of every race, of every creed, and of every orientation, but the privilege of living under this flag does not come without cost. Nor should it come without respect.
The nation and everything it strives for is embodied in the American Flag. We strive to be more inclusive. We strive to be more understanding. We strive to fix the problems that plague our society. But in striving to do so we must have a common bond; some symbol that reminds us of our past struggles and propels us to a brighter, more enlightened future. That symbol is the American flag.
I would once again, ask the Presidents and the Athletic Directors to convey my message to your teams. The young student-athletes are future leaders of this nation. By showing respect for the flag, they are making it possible for America to be everything we dreamed it could be.
Written by: William H. McRaven, Chancellor of The University of Texas
System. A retired Navy Admiral.
This memo personifies how I personally feel about the current protest situation. As a granddaughter of a retired General, this subject just gets my goat…as, the saying goes. In any event, I thought you might want to share it with your readers.
Too bad Roger Goodell couldn’t display such courage!!!
Warmest regards,
Elizabeth Cavanaugh
President
EC DESIGNS, LLC.
Newport Coast, Ca
I would have to echo what “Laura” above said. Much as I may or may not like how he chose to protest peacefully the fact remains its in our constitution that he has that right. We should respect that. We don’t have to like it but until we have walked in his shoes we really have no idea. I love my country and I cringe if I see a faded flag flying or a flag mishandled. I’ve always been very patriotic. However the very thing that makes our country great is the government isn’t jailing him or worse as they would do in other countries for his protest. Our country is founded on freedom so let him have his. I don’t have to agree or even like it. I only try to be compassionate enough to respect his choice and move past it.
Tina, I agree with you 100%! I am proud of the brave veterans in my family and proud to fly my American flag all year long. I was taught to be thankful for this precious country called America. Your blog makes me so happy. It brings beauty and elegance in a world of coarseness and vulgarity. Thank you so much. Much respect.
No one is saying he doesn’t have the right. But does that make this right? NO. He was born into such privilege, and is earning million, a poster child for the American dream. His disrespect for his fellow countrymen, women and his lack of pride and gratitude for what he has been given is what has so many, including me outraged.
He should be dropped from the team. He has that right but has abused his moment in the spotlight.My daughter plays field hockey for a D1 school and let me tell you , if she ever even thought about disgracing our country that way, I would yank her out of that school so fast. It starts with the top and the leadership here is sorely lacking.
Very interesting conversation. I don’t watch NFL so have really only seen news articles about this. I feel hesitant to criticize or judge his actions since I don’t know what it is like to live as a person of color in the US. I do respect the fact that he has chosen a peaceful stance.
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Hello and happy very early morning to you. A VERY happy birthday to my eldest son, so proud of that kid (yes to me he is still a kid though he’s 29)!!
Guess there are perks after all, of waking up at 4:30 and not being able to get back to sleep:) Sometimes I like to connect with my readers on a different level, beyond all the pretty fluff and let’s face it- pretty fluff is so much fun!! But there are times that other things are on my mind and I am always curious to take the pulse of others out there.
While I do not expect that all will agree, and will always respect other opinions, I do wonder if how I am feeling is in the majority or not, which is one reason I started those little polls on Sunday. It gives me great insight and it’s always nice to know my feelings have lots of company!
One recent story that has really gotten under my skin is this Colin Kaepernick taking the knee. Perhaps it is because I have a father who had a distinguished navy career and who devoted his life to serving our great country. Or maybe just because I am an American who feels incredibly lucky to have the freedom and liberties that so few do.
Yes we are the land of the free…but I wonder has that very freedom been exploited and that privilege been used to disrespect the country that gave it? All I can say it’s a good thing I am not a college dean or professional football coach because I would be dismissing kids left and right….yes I guess I would be making the 5 o’ clock news on a regular basis lol.
If he really feels so strongly about the inequality of our country , there are so many other ways he can channel his energies and moral convictions, that will actually HELP people. His taking a knee during the National Anthem does absolutely nothing to help anyone except his own notoriety.
He says “this is bigger than football’ so maybe if he feels so strongly about it, he should forfeit his multi million dollar contract and devote himself to a more noble cause of working full time on equality for all.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Tina. I could not agree with you more. Unfortunately, as my mama would say, some of these people have gotten a little too big for their britches! We throw millions of dollars at them and they do not have the character to handle it, or the fame that comes with it. I am so very grateful every day to fly my American flag and honor what it stands for, and honor the men and women who have fought for me (and this self seeking football player). If he feels like their are injustices that he needs to stand up for, seek real solutions, not a “moment in the limelight” that dishonors our country. All the best to you on this Tuesday.
Well said! Thank you.
THANK YOU. I completely agree with everything you said. If he really and truly wanted to make a change, there are many productive things he could do while not being in the limelight.
Funny, my husband is a civil liberties attorney who practices constitutional law, he has worked with and on behalf of the NAACP so he is very sensitive to the plight of those who feel disenfranchised but even he said this is absurd.
Love your blog!
I 100% agree, I’m very disappointed in his employers also.
I agree, well said and thank you!
Roseanne
I agree also. So many take for granted the freedoms we exercise everyday. We should be grateful and not take it for granted. I am so offended by the lack of respect not standing for the national anthem that I would probably be on the news for firing or expelling the individuals as well. I grew up during a time of change, civil rights movement Vietnam War ect. and feel very strongly about patriotism. I don’t know if it is lack of experience, or ignorance that motivate these individuals, but they have obviously never read history or traveled out of the country. Otherwise they the would recognize what they take for granted. Yes, I too love your beautiful blog; I want to make my little part of the world as beautiful as possible, but the world goes on around us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
I agree 100%
Well said. I agree 100%.
I remember after 9/11 how America came together and the pride I felt for my country at a very dark time. How we got so far away from our pride I’ll never know. Kaepernick is simply someone that grew up with complete lack of home training. Just sad!
Bless you for having enough character for taking a stand!!!
Becky Hamilton, Dyersburg , Tennessee
AMEN! Thank you for posting your sentiments. I’m just so tired of reading about Colin K. and how other athletes have followed suit. Unfortunately people today are so far removed from what others have sacrificed to afford us our freedoms that this country. People need to get educated and at the same time realize it’s not all about them!
Everyone chiming agrees…me too. My mother and father and former husband are all veterans. My father in law too. Maybe it’s my heritage that makes me honor our military, maybe I am overly aware of their sacrifices….whatever it is,every day I am PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN and wave the flag each chance I get. I am a recent reader of your blog, have ordered blue and white vases…should arrive today….and I love it all. Thank you for your fluff and your serious side too.
I agree totally. ANd the children who are repeating this, shame on you, parents and coaches!
So well-said!!! I completely agree. I wish more people like you would speak up for what is right instead of trying to call attention to themselves. Thank you for standing up for our great nation and the people who keep it that way.
You hit the nail on the head! Agree 100%. This country has given people the opportunity to be who they want to be: you only have to take advantage of it and work hard.. I have no patience for those who denigrate those who have given limbs and lives by insulting our national anthem.
If those athletes are not happy here, they have the option and capability to leave. No one will forcibly detain them as in other countries.
Bravo! Thank you, Tina! Well said and I completely agree!
He has the right to do it,however there are many ways he could get his point across without kneeling or raising a fist. I blame the NFL. They fine players exhorbatant amounts of money for wearing cleats they don’t like,but let this
Jerk and his kind get away with this disgusting display.
Thank you for speaking out on this. I absolutely Agree!
Deri
The NFL has rules so I don’t understand how they let people get away with this, I guess this is not one of them. Mr. Kaepernick collects his 12 million a year for this. I say follow the rules or go home. Our flag does not represent him in any way, his 15 minutes of fame will fade, let’s hope soon. Thanks
Very well said, Tina. The disrespect for our great nation, its’ traditions and values, so commonly demonstrated among so many, tells me that failures in character training happened in the home, schools and just about everywhere else. So sad for us all. We could all use a refresher course in GRATITUDE!
I absolutely agree! I also fear for the police and firefighters who also protect us all. They all deserve respect.
Thanks for this wonderful blog.
Karen
I have to say I agree too. I’m happy
To hear that TV attendance has been down as well. We live in such a wonderful country.
I totally respect and admire your stand on this issue. It speaks volumes about you!
Youth is certainly wasted on the young as they say!
Athletes as a group generally use their fame to better a cause with the utmost respect. Age has a way of opening our minds. Unfortunately guidance is missing here!
Love for America must live in our hearts and be taught to our children!
I come from a Marine Corps family and have served multiple deployments on the front lines in Middle East war zones over the last 20 years. I have spent my life defending Kaepernick’s right to protest in any way he sees fit.
I can also tell you that many front line officers & grunts are very jaded about the flag waving and pandering to patriotism we see, however well-intentioned it may be, and however grateful we are for your support.
You write from a position of immense wealth and privilege, and the chances that your own sons will end up in the military are slim.
I respect your opinion and you should respect Kaepernick’s. His word view and experience are vastly different from yours, and you have a right to protest his actions.
But before you suggest he’s un-American (and remember this country is founded on protest) I would urge you to consider that the day may come when you will feel the need to publicly protest, and will be grateful for the right.
I personally am grateful to Kaepernick for exercising his right to protest and calling attention to an issue that affects many; it makes me think I spent two decades fighting for the basic rights of democracy, and not just to act as a surrogate for the 98% of Americans who never put themselves at risk and never question what drives a successful man like Kaepernick to make himself so vulnerable to criticism for the sake of legitimate protest.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions Tina. I agree with you 100%! His actions show tremendous disrespect and his employers are a disappointment.
Well said. I totally agree with you. Every time I see our American Flag I am filled with so much pride. America is the home of the brave and the land of the free–STAND up and be proud of this wonderful country.
I completely agree with you! I’m with you, I would probably be on the news too for constantly firing players, this madness has to stop!
God Bless America!
I too could not agree with you more. I love this country with every ounce of my being. I come from a U.S. Marine family and know the sacrifices the military makes for each of us. I cannot stand watching these people disrespect our country. My answer to them is to turn off the NFL completely and not watch at all until they do something about this. I find it so offensive that the NFL charged the US military for years to show their colors at every football game, but will not do anything about this.
I agree 100% with you. He needs to channel his frustration, energy and funds into helping those in need. My husband and I, who normally watch football on Sundays, start the games and if anyone takes a knee, we turn it off. I refuse to support a team who’s management allows this travesty.
If a person doesn’t like an aspect of something, be a part of the solution, otherwise you’re a part of the problem.
Some gave their lives, so that we could voice complaint without being imprisoned, or worse.
Thank you to VETERAN. Thank you. You said it perfectly.
I totally agree with your post. Thank You! YOU should get up early everyday. IF I could afford it I would buy out your store.
Thank you.
While I too find it a disrespectful gesture, it is his right. However, if he strongly believes in this inequality, what does taking a knee do other than make us talk about it.
I guess I do not see this inequality as he seems to. After all we have a black president and many blacks in positions of power, sports. Look where he is for goodness sake.
I live in the Deep South. I do not see the evidence here as he states. What I do see is lots of crime being black on black. Where’s the outrage to try to put a stop to this? It seems to me that these particular kind of inequalities must be challenged with a greater energy.
I couldn’t have expressed it better. Thank you for your post. I only wish some of our politicians could read it! Perhaps there are also some parents raising children who need to read it as well so that they can instill this in their children. This country is going in the wrong direction so quickly that it is frightening and there is a very limited amount of time to change the course. At 65, the values I was raised with seem not to apply anymore and I find it very sad.
I agree with you completely. He has the right to protest. Many have given their lives so he can do just that. But I would like to suggest that instead of “taking the knee” he should get down on both knees, bow his head and thank God he was born in a country where he is free to express himself. Personally I think the media hype would be for an entirely different reason and isn’t that just sad?
Well said, Tina! I totally agree and many of us are fed up with those who do not appreciate the privileges they enjoy being Americans. If this isn’t the best place to live in the world, why are so many risking their lives to get here. If they truly feel strongly, they should do something positive.
Bless you and thank you for having the courage to speak up. Its not politically correct (disgusting thought) to speak up for what we as a country paid a Hugh price to have. What was right is now wrong and what was wrong is now right. The national press goes into a feeding frenzy and then every person looking for fifteen minutes of fame are shown disrespecting our country that GOD gave us. Disrespect is shown in every form because people think that because we have the right to disrespect that we should do it without consequences.
I loved your post and am so impressed with the comments shared by your readers above. Thank you for your courage to share your thoughts and disdain for the refrain of disrespect against the best nation on earth. And I am totally with the woman above who wrote about people not respecting our anthem — my kids have always been taught to stop everything when they hear it, stand with handover heart, and appreciate the words of that powerful song … as my mom,the WWII immigrant and naturalized US citizen, taught me!
I totally agree. Google Dabo Swinney, head football coach at Clemson, to read his take on it.
To the Veteran who wrote “(and remember this country is founded on protest)” how very sad I am for you. This country was founded on God and the freedom to worship him. You have chosen our escape from religious oppression as the basis of our country’s founding and not the glorious freedom we achieved to worship freely. This freedom has been forgotten and drummed out of society by radicals of the 60’s and 70’s. It has taken these people and so many uninformed people of the history of the founding of this great country, 50 years to destroy our moral core. I thank God my Grandfather, World War I Veteran and my Father , World War II Veteran, who taught me, in this order, to love GOD, FAMILY, COUNTRY. This belief brings peace to my heart and I sincerely wish everyone in this Country would choose the higher moral ground instead of the ME GENERATION!
Absolutely agree 100%.
Amen and Amen! God bless this wonderful country of ours. Yes, we have freedom of speech, but there is a time, place and right way to voice our freedom. Disrespecting the national anthem and flag is not the right way. This type of protest disrespects the brave men and women who have fought for our freedom. I sincerely doubt any of these protesters would join any branch of the military.
Amen!
Bad form from the person above who hides under the protective clause of “Veteran.” Shaming the host of the forum and her family is not only disrespectful, but striking low. Tina’s “immense wealth and privilege” has nothing to do with her perspective on this issue, nor on the decision of her sons to serve or not to serve in the military. Wealth building comes from very hard work and perservence. Perhaps Mr. Kapernick would agree with this assessment.
Thank you !!! Very well said and I totally agree. God bless America !
Your comments are right on……agree 100%…..thank you for having the courage to speak up!
I think that most of us have never experienced the type of racism that Kaepernick is trying to bring attention to. Most military and veterans I have heard speak about it, have defended his right to do what he is doing. He is peacefully trying to make a point and I have heard that he is donating a million dollars to help the cause and recently he and his wife donated 60,000$ to buy backpacks for needy kids. Standing for the flag is certainly something we like to do to honor the sanctity of it, but it is also easy. It requires no sacrifice or much effort. Taking a stand and creating a conflict to try to bring about change for the better is no less patriotic in my opinion. Sure, he makes a good living now, but I am guessing he did not grow up wealthy and has seen his share of inequality.
Agree 100%! For a person to be “privelidged” enough to receive a college education and go on to receive a job, in my opinion, in an overly paid industry in our great country, makes me think our society has turned a direction. It seems rules of civility and morals are challenged today. Just because, you can behave or say whatever you wanted due to free speech, does not, mean you should do so.
My father was a Korean War veteran, my father-in-law a WWII veteran, and I thank God often I had the parents I had! Capernick SEEKS ATTENTION and is paid to do so! Perhaps we should pay our military personnel and our men and women in blue like we pay our athletes and people in the media, then we might flip the tables on them, see if they still want to take the risks for the rewards!
Let’s start giving positive attention to those that deserve it, not highly paid athletes, they PLAY, in a GAME.
I am so disheartened when I read your comments and the comments of the majority of your loyal readers. In my opinion, all of you (with the exception of Veteran) are missing the point of CK’s protest.
Our country is founded on freedom and one of the most important freedoms we enjoy is that of free speech.
It is obvious to me, based on the comments that I read here, the demographic that reads your blog – including myself. Upper middle class, white women. Our worlds can be very small and many of us are very reluctant to truly try to see life from others’ point of view. Our lives are very comfortable and we don’t want to get into anything messy.
I am feeling that our country is about to boil over on the subject of race. So many of you have stated that what CK is doing is not making any difference and is inconsequential. Again I disagree. What he is doing has garnered a lot of attention and I believe his intent in his peaceful protest is to start conversations about race in our country.
One of my favorite authors is Steven Covey and in his book, “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” one of the habits is: “Seek first to understand, and then to be understood.” This can be a very difficult concept to master for many of us. When most of us are having a difficult conversation, instead of really listening to what the other person is saying, we are thinking about how we are going to respond.
I believe that it is so important at this time in our country to seek to understand others. It is my heartfelt wish that ALL people would look deep inside ourselves and really examine our prejudices and how we relate to people who are different than we are. Do we really try to understand their life and their history?
We are obviously not always going to agree because our perspectives come from such different life experiences, but can we try? Can we start trying to talk to one another and try to educate ourselves about what other people’s lives and experiences are really all about?
If we don’t, I’m worried about our future! I had a conversation just this week with a young woman originally from a foreign country. She has been in this country for a long time and has attained her US citizenship. She told me that coming to this country and becoming a US citizen was her dream. But now she feels that she’s not sure she wants to stay here because “the USA is becoming a scarey place”. I have no intention of leaving my home but I agree with her and that the USA is becoming a scary place and that makes me really sad.
Well said!
I think the coach & owners should have players return to the locker room if the players choose not to participate. … instead the media gives attention and these days you can become famous for being disrespectful…. if we as a country don’t stand for something, we will fall for anything … sad!
Thank you for not being afraid to say where you stand! I often feel the problem in this country is that the silent majority is not being heard. Thanks for letting your voice be heard.
Tina – 100% agree. Not on the disrespect to our country, but to his teammates & coaches and what about his parents? I did hear (not sure if this is true or not) that less people are viewing the games this year because of this. Is this true or not, I do not know. I do know he should not be allowed to do that. In the NFL they have a rule for everything – maybe they never thought this needed to be a “rule”. Show respect at the game, for the country for which you play. Respect for the fans – who without – you’d be nothing. Obviously, this is MY opinion, and others won’t (don’t) agree. Thanks for bringing this up – I loved reading the other comments. Interesting to see the majority agree with you.
Amen, spot on! Totally agree. There are other ways you can forward your cause without making it all about you.
My husband is retired military with a purple heart so yes I totally agree with you . It bought tears to my eyes to see the vet in the chair, we need a reminder we do not have all these privileges without a cost to others, so this man kneeling is a total disrespect in our eyes. Here in Georgia they are standing and linking arms which is far far better idea. It signifies a unity for all.
What a wonderful and brave post, Tina. I have heard my husband and college son discuss this often and the way they believe the NFL should handle this. While the player has a right to do this, the franchise, as a private entity, has the ability to stop it . My husband is a Navy veteran who spent 7 years on submarines. He attended college and law school on the GI Bill. We are proud to be a patriotic family. Standing for the flag is the least we can do.
Hi Tina, I rarely comment but obviously this hit a nerve with a lot of people including me. I am with you, my feeling is that this young man was born in the greatest country on earth and through good genes and opportunity he had the chance to earn tens of millions of dollars doing what the loves, never having to sacrifice anything greater than a sports injury.
To snub his nose at our anthem is to snub his nose at all those men and women who serve and put their lives on the line every single day so he can earn his millions and play football. He is a disgrace to our country. I would respect him far more if he started some kind of a grassroots group or peaceful protest if he was inclined but to take a stand that insults and tears down the very people who make what he does possible infuriates me.
My husband a college professor (and much more liberal) does not completely agree with me. He says it is his right which it is however my feeling as a 51 year old who is a proud American is that we as a country have gone too far in our politically correct movement. This madness has to stop. My kids (twins that are 17) both think it is wrong and they have discussed it in their classes with their teachers, the consensus even among that generation is what Colin is doing is akin to stepping on the American flag.
Ending on a happy note, got my silver and porcelains yesterday and it was like Christmas, everything was way more beautiful in person! Thnak you.
Liza
I’m with you, Tina, and I admire your courage in putting your feelings out there. We have stopped watching football. I am horrified to see high school cheerleaders taking the knee as well as kids all over. All sports figures could try to be better role models for the young of this country, but instead we see the nonsense of a bunch of overpaid buffoons. Again, good for you.
Thank you, Tina. It is refreshing to be able to hear reason and common sense expressed by you and most of your followers. “God bless America, land that I love. Stand beside her and guide her through the NIGHT, with a LIGHT from above.” Honor and respect for what American patriots do and have done should never be negotiable.
I completely agree with you, Tina. We are so blessed to live in this great country. It sickens me to see people disrespect the freedom and values that so many have fought for.
Agree with you Tina. Spoiled,
Inconsiderate people. Don’t
Seem to realize the gift of being born American. Service people learn respect, for the most part. Do we need the draft?
Totally agree, glad to hear from your side, I’m tired of people praising him
First of all, I have to say a heart felt “thank you” for your above comment! I’ve never commented on your blog; I’ve just enjoyed all your postings and photos, creative ideas and all the fabulous travel pix! Truly wonderful.
Now for the serious stuff: My father was a Colonel (at 32) in the United States Air Force and was very proud of his 30 year military career as a meteorologist, graduating from Cal Tech. From 1942 to 1946 he was stationed in England during all the London bombings and saw many, many horrors. He came home to Texas a changed man….I wish I could have known him before the war. It saddens me to see anyone not giving due respect to our flag, country or service people. I can remember when JFK said ” ask not what your country can do for you, but ask what can YOU do for your country”…Sadly we don’t hear that anymore.
Amen to your post! And thank you to all the brave men and women who serve and put their lives on the line and sometimes give them with so little gratitude shown to them and their families!
Totally agree with you! Very well said.
Thank you for standing up! I love this country and the freedoms we so often take for granted. I feel good knowing that so many feel as strongly…maybe I’m overly sentimental, but I get chills when I hear our national anthem; I’m a proud American who was, and am very upset each time I see an athlete take a knee.
Being legally right does not mean it’s morally right. Are we teaching our children and immigrants to disrespect our country? Some have become so liberal in their thoughts and actions that anything goes even to the degree that they burn the flag. To the person that’s thinks our country is scary she should go to Europe, a wonderful place to visit, and hear what their citizens are saying about their country that is truly scary. Did your ever stop to think that God put us in a place surrounded by oceans on two sides to separate us from the upheaval of the eastern countries?
Good Morning, Tina~
Thank you for your brave stance on this issue. I have read all the above about right to protest and freedom of speech. I know that there are racial issues in our country and in some areas they are immense — why is it that the people in positions of media and fame do not work to empower and educate those most affected by racial injustices? I agree with Kaepernick’s freedom of speech rights, but is that the only freedom he is so publicly enjoying? What about the freedom to live each day enjoying the privilege of life as he chooses? I believe it is disrespect to dishonor our national flag and anthem — so many lives have been lost to protect both. Why not go to work to help the inner city youth — why not use his public persona to speak to those so affected and tell them that “protest ” is fine — but there has to be positive action on their own parts as well.
Many prayers for all of us … we do live in the greatest country on earth — God Bless America.
COUNT ME IN!!! They “think” football is tough…try the MARINES, etc. etc. etc. He is paid “way to much!!!” franki
I agree with you 100%!!!
I completely agree. The “men” need to stand during our national anthem.
What is making the USA a “scary place” (as mentioned above) is the disrespect that some interpret as “freedom of speech”. I am sick and tired of people who think that having the right means they can tear down whatever is not in line with how they feel. Kaepernick can go to any other country on the face of the earth if he is unhappy here. Or, maybe he should STAND UP and MAN UP!
Tina,
I agree with you. I have left out and hanging on my entry hall console my favorite 4th of July swag decoration. It simply spells out “AMERICA.” I decided we could use a little more emphasis on patriotic pride this year. We’re not perfect, but we are so blessed to have the freedoms we have.
I agree…. The National Football League should mandate respect for The National Anthem!!
Kaepernick is striving to take the stand (sic) and be the voice for his Black Lives Matter girlfriend!!
It’s disgusting to me… he has a life of privilege… with all his NFL millions. I say this too about the Hollywood’s liberals who are paid 20 million per project…where are the shelters and inner city outreach programs they have developed with their millions and free time?
What bothers me most about the victim stance is that while they are professing such injustice, many…not all.. but many continue to engage in the behaviors that brought the police in the first place. I live in Charlotte and witnessed this destruction just a few weeks ago.
Out nation is more divided than ever…and it seems the militant postures will continue until the White House changes.
The NFL has a lot of problems with fans now. Ironically they will police uniform standards…but not standards of conduct…go figure. But until they feel the pain in the pocket from apathetic fans… nothing will change.
I have very mixed feelings about this. I remember one of my all time favorite Historical Sociology Professors saying the greatest freedom we have is the right to burn the American Flag. Her argument is that in other countries citizens can’t even speak negatively about their country or leaders for fear of being executed or imprisoned. Our government proves that US citizens have the right to free expression because nothing will be done to them if they choose to burn the flag, or choose not to stand or salute the flag. My conflict is due to not knowing if this will actually result in positive change or is just a publicity stunt. The only way to assure more equity and the equal application of law in this country is to participate in public office, transparency in political financing, volunteering at schools, helping the poor with opportunities in education and the workforce. Simply sitting or kneeling when the National Anthem is played does none of this. I don’t know if Collin or any of the other individuals kneeling do or have volunteered or worked to resolve the systemic inequality at all levels of our society, so I can’t criticize them. I don’t see this issue as an either or, but one that needs to be addressed and worked on for the majority of our citizens. I think it’s great that you have opened your blog up to discussions like this — thanks!
Of course, you are so right and I totally agree. Cannot imagine the NFL allowing this, especially in light of the fact that my hero, Tom Brady, got suspended for being “generally aware” of something.
The football field is revered to many of us. The players, especially the quarterbacks, are known to almost everyone. I think he’s gotten attention for sure, but it’s the wrong kind of attention. Imagine how many other different ways he could have made his point. However, he knew for certain his way would generate much conversation, even though it has made him a vile figure otherwise.
Agree 100%. While he has a right to act like a punk, thanks to living in this great country, his behavior sickens me and if I were his boss I would demand an end to this shameful behavior or fire him. All companies have rules.
Thanks for starting this dialogue.
Thank you. I couldn’t agree more. Where are the grown-ups????
hi tina, I LOVE THIS POST!
IMNSHO, anyone who doesn’t like it here (i mean this glorious US of A), is welcome to live somewhere else, and please, don’t let the backdoor hit their a** on the way out.
p.s. reading through earlier comments, i just want to add that i am neither a white woman nor upper middle class.
what i am is a very grateful naturalized citizen and one who is proud to call herself AMERICAN (please, leave the political correct hyphen-race at the door!).
It is his right only because of the sacrifice of others. No one has questioned his new look and the reason for it. I and none of my friends would ever purposely hurt anyone in word or action. That said I am soooo tired of PC especially when only certain ones of us must be PC. Our family refuses. We love our country and it is the best in the world. Unfortunately it’s being sold or given away faster than most can even imagine. Society is so complacent or dumbed down they can’t see that yes he has the right but like you said, who does it help? The country is so distracted by idiots that they can’t or won’t see how many of our rights are being taken away every day and given to terrorists who’s only goal is our death. It only took 4% of Germans in WWII to kill millions. Where does that leave us today when there are over 100 million extremists who want us dead or under their control? As a Mom with 3 daughters that scares me to death, So let C.K. take his knee. Remember it’s his right! But showing such disrespect for our flag, our country and those who died for it doesn’t hurt us or help anyone except for those who look up to celebraties…..especially kids. Oh and C.K at least you have a knee and…..ALL LIVES MATTER!
I agree with you completely! I too had a father that served in World War II as a Marine, came home a tormented man but never complained. I am married to a Marine, and my youngest daughter recently married a Marine. I live in Midland Texas, home of George W. Bush. Our country has never been perfect, never will be. But if you can’t respect it, fight for it, and make it a better place, get off your knee and move to another country. Now.
I really appreciate your courage to speak your mind Tina. Have you seen the video by Tomi Lahren who destroys Colin Kaepernick brilliantly? If not you must see it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qq0_nyWVXCI
Totally agree. So very grateful to be an American.
One of the most American rights is the right to publicly disagree with our government without fear of punishment. When I think of places without this right, I think of WWII Germany or more recently, North Korea.
I can imagine the subject of protest must be deeply important to this protestor. Choosing to not bend the knee to our flag is a difficult action, especially since we all love our flag so dearly. And who is to say the protestor does not love the flag any less than each of us?
So when I see a protestor doing something as simple as not standing for the pledge or not kneeling at a football game…acts that in any other country would land them in jail, or worse, killed, I do not take it as an affront to our flag or troops or to America. On the contrary, it is a reminder of just how great this country is that we CAN protest our government openly. It reminds me of how our veterans are protectors of the greatest freedoms in the world. It makes me even more proud to be an American.
the political climate is so complicated and distressing these days. thank you for so eloquently expressing your heart and mind. politics and religion? both are rarely present in design blogland, yet so integral. it has been hard for me to find my part in the midst of such division and lament in the country right now. i see myself as a peacemaker, a sort of reconciler who holds on to paradox. and that can be painful. i grieve for all sides and i don’t just take a knee in prayer, i try to live in prayer, hoping to be an instrument and a reflector of light, a mirror or a transmitter of sorts of the light i receive from the mystery beyond. it’s all i know to do. peace to you and to all of us struggling to come to terms with shifts in the culture and assaults on our values. love is going to make everything okay, and i still believe beauty can save the world. xox
Amen, sister!
Bravo! Well said Tina.
CK’s right to protest is cemented in our Constitution. I consider his behavior childish and irresponsible; the NFL’s response is shortsighted and counterproductive. Both appear to be driven by fear of the PC police and its false narrative.
We, in turn, have the right to discontinue supporting the NFL by enjoying our football-free Sundays and not buying their merchandise. We counter their detrimental effects by raising informed and responsible children.
For those making assumptions, I am a naturalized, non-hyphenated American citizen who genuinely hopes none of the current protesters ever has to experience actual oppression.
Well articulated!!!
“He says “this is bigger than football’ so maybe if he feels so strongly about it, he should forfeit his multi million dollar contract and devote himself to a more noble cause of working full time on equality for all.”
I agree!!!!
Does he think he could have the same salary working in another country? He should appreciate his God-given talent and all the perks comes with that gift. He is fortunate to have the talent that brings him an affluent lifestyle ,,,a job and lifestyle he would not have in another country.
You spoke for many of us. We are all Americans, and the warriors who defend our freedoms and fight for freedom all over the world are always to be respected. As should be, the brave warriors who defend our communities against those who break our laws and threaten our communities. Perhaps, in showing respect for these people, we all become warriors for respect, kindness and goodwill.
Oohhhh Tina! You hit a very sad spot! I agree completely with you!
My beloved Nephew, my sister’s son, was recently killed in a Black Hawk Helicopter Crash off of the Coast of Florida during a night training mission.
He was a graduate of The Naval Academy, Annapolis. After Graduation he accepted a commission as a Lieutenant in the Marines. He had 2 tours of Iraq & one Tour of Afghanistan. He came home safe to us.
He was a Captain with Special Ops. , a MARSOC Raider. (The Navy Seals of the Marines). He is now known as a Raider7. He went down with 6 of his Men! His name is Captain Stanford Henry Shaw III. He had a Fiancée who he met at The Naval Academy.
So you now know how I feel about the disrespect running rampant in this Country.
All gave some, Some gave all! We are changed forever & ever….
I’m sure you would love to read so much more about this amazing young man & you can google him by his name or Raider7. You will be amazed at the bravery of those 7 Marines. Never Above you, Never Below you, Always Beside you….
Agreed! Gotten to where I am rarely turning on TV. Too much depressing and disappointing.
Thank you for being a strong woman not being afraid to speak your opinion and truth! I myself can relate! So, let me say, San Francisco is my home town, and I have many friends and family there. Having relocated now to PA 2 years ago, and living in a more “less liberal” location (if you will), our eyes are open to many other points of view. What he is expressing is disgusting and so unpatriotic to our roots as Americans. He did come from a lovely family outside of Modesto, CA (adopted into a white family, not that I think that really matters), and speaking with many of my SF area friends, he doesn’t have the support of the local community as one may think. I think its sad as its my hometown and the entire “black lives matter” movement has gotten so outrages! To support these people who loot and riot and have nothing better to do then waste tax payer dollars and risk the well being of our police force is unimaginable! I agree with many of your fellow followers that if he truly wanted to make a difference, there are numerous ways to make a contribution and/or help causes other then to “take a knee” which I find a disgrace to our GREAT NATION, which so many have given their lives to create for us all!
Agreed, and let me just say one thing. We don’t need to “make America great again” it already is GREAT! That includes our military, police, fire departments, medical staff, etc.
My dad spent 30 years defending our country, and my brother spent 15 years active military and is now in the reserves, as well as having a full time job that helps to keep this country safe. I liven a town that is primarily military, as was the town I moved from, these people and their families devote their lives to keep us safe. Get off your knees! There are other ways to protest what you think are injustices and this is not it.
Thanks Tina for having the courage to say what others won’t.
Thank you for taking a stand Tina! 100% agree!!!
P.S. It is fabulous to see so many proud and like minded people commenting!
I am one of those immigrants Trump keeps railing against, and yes, as a legal Canadian alien, I have been ‘extremely vetted’. I also know the Pledge of Allegiance by heart and always stand with my hand over my heart when the National Anthem is played or the Pledge recited. How else was our American-born son going to learn to respect the flag?
Always frosts my pumpkins how too many American citizens like Kaepernick certainly know what their rights are – and are the first to scream ‘foul’ at any perceived violation of those rights – yet they always seem to be a bit fuzzy when it comes to their responsibilities/civic duty. Isn’t the first responsibility of citizenship to be a productive member of society, and to raise children to become the same?
I dare Kaepernick to join those who place the flags by the headstones in Arlington National Cemetery on November 11th. It is a sobering reminder why we should be grateful to those who have made the ultimate sacrifice in defense of our freedom.
I do not agree. What is he supposed to do, write his congressman? We must get real. He has the enviable position of being able to reach an audience on a topic that is relevant, and this is a pivoting point of time we are living in. Plant the issue firmly in front of the audience.
Hi Tina, I rarely comment, but I feel I have to speak up, I came from a privileged family, I have traced my family back to the May flower and a family member in the military in every war, protecting America, and our freedom, but there are many here in America that feel they are not as free, and rightfully so, going out to a movie, or coming from church, maybe Grampa going fishing, they are stopped, harassed, and sometimes shot, this is happening more often now, all because of their color, this young athlete used this most opportune time and place to bring it to our attention and reach as many people as possible I don’t believe he was disrespecting our flag, it is his flag too, many of his family and friends have served in the military, are we listening? he is protesting in a very peaceful way, his right to, thankyou Tina for giving all of us the opportunity to speak
Tina, I totally agree….thanks for expressing your thoughts. I’m tired of the disrespect for this great country. I love your blog and how you make each of our lives a little brighter!
Thank you!!
Tina I love your blog, however I am particularly astonished at the comments referencing ” individuals & their kind” and the invitation to just leave OUR country if we disagree. I can only respond by saying “walk a mile ” in someone else’s shoes. We ALL built America & this country belongs to ALL of us, including those who recognize that America has flaws. Many do not feel warm and fuzzy when the National Anthem is sung. Peaceful demonstration is perfectly appropriate–uncomfortable for some, never the less appropriate. I have 3 earned degrees including doctoral degree from some of the “finest” universities in the US & have taught in those hallowed halls. Many of my relatives have served in the military–some in the segregated military. My spouse played in the segregated NFL–as late as the early 70s the men of different races could play together, but were expressly prohibited from rooming together. He was kidnapped by a racist who searched for a place to hang him before he escaped. My law abiding in laws had crosses burned in their yards. In the late 60s I entered establishments through back doors & used ” colored only” bathrooms while working & attending university in the South. We are a great nation with a difficult history and we all know there is still much to do. I have heard far too many hard working men of color including our President referred to as “boys”. Kneeling is the least that young MAN can do.
I don’t see his actions in that light. The national anthem belongs to all of us, as committed citizens, and not just the military members. We are all patriots in our own right, just by contributing to a good society and working to make things good for everyone. My Dad was at Pearl Harbor when it was attacked (and survived), so my family has sacrificed as much as any.
Thank you for you opinion on this. I agree with Veteran who posted above. It’s past time we stopped worshiping a flag or a song and started honoring The United States and the constitution, which gives everyone the right to protest. Where is the outrage over what this athlete and others are trying o bring attention to? I too come from a family with both a strong military and strong law enforcement background. Love of this country, rather than of a piece of fabric or a song, move me to support protest and freedom of expression.
When people protest in the streets, sometimes violently, we often see hand wringing people saying “protest is fine but do it peacefully!” He is protesting peacefully and now people are complaining about that. Protest does not threaten our republic in any way but refusing to allow protest threatens it in every way.
I’m with you on this, Tina, 100%.
I see both sides but honestly I lean more towards his “seeemingly” disrespect for our country and service men/women. It is an ignorant way to protest, as you said there are MANY more effective ways where he could actually help someone. What will taking a knee do exactly other than land him on the cover of Time magazine?
We have a time where we have a black president so obviously our country has made significant strides. I am half Spanish and have experienced certain degrees of discrimination despite the fact that I hold multiple advance degrees and have taught at a nationally ranked university. Inequality is here and has been woven into our history, I am not going to dispute that.
However, in my estimation we are making strides forward, we have a woman up for president and will be saying goodbye to a 2 term black president, if that is not strides then what is?
It is up to each and every one of us to keep a positive and proactive dialog going, thank you for allowing each of us to express ourselves in a respectful manner.
Thank you to Veteran, Citizen, and the others for their opposing views with which I agree.
On my father’s side of the family, I have long history military service and on my mother’s side, a very recent history of immigration to the US from several countries without freedoms. From both sides I have learned that freedom is at its best when it is, in fact, unfettered and free — and, like love, unconditional.
I immediately re-posted your photo. Wow!
People should be focussed on the message of awareness and need for a conversation around the issue instead of being distracted by the act of kneeling. It seems folks have just dug in to their existing bias’ instead of being open for an honest discussion. I too am from a military family and they all salute his right because this is the land of the free and home of the brave.
Dear TIna;
I could not agree with you more. As a mom of three sons, two of whom play D1 College Sports, I am amazed that colleges and other institutions turn a blind eye to such actions. However, one recent memo was written by William H. McRaven, Chancellor of The University Of Texas System to Presidents and Athletic Directors of all fourteen institutions in the Univeristy of Texas System. The memo reads as follows:
As most of you recall, last January I sent out a letter asking you to encourage your coaching staff and your players to stand up straight when the National Anthem was played. I requested that the coaches and the players “face the flag and place their hand over their heart as a
sign of respect to the nation.”
I made it clear that honoring the flag does not imply that the republic
for which it stands is perfect. I said, “Far from it, honoring the flag is our
collective commitment that we will constantly attempt to get better as a
nation, to improve as a people, and to use the freedoms we have been given to make the earth a better place.”
I spent 37 years defending freedom of speech and freedom of expression. Nothing is more important to this democracy. Nothing! However, while no one should be compelled to stand, they should recognize that by sitting in protest to the flag they are disrespecting everyone who sacrificed to make this country what it is today – as imperfect as it might be.
Those that believe the flag represents oppression should remember all the Americans who fought to eliminate bigotry, racism, sexism, imperialism, communism, and terrorism. The flag rode with the Buffalo Soldiers of the 9th, 10th, 24th and 25th Cavalry and Infantry Regiments.
It was carried by the suffragists down the streets of New York City. It flew with the Tuskegee Airman of WWII. It was planted in the fields where Cesar Chavez spoke. It marched with Martin Luther King Jr. It rocketed into space on the shoulder patches of women, gays, Hispanic, Asian, and African-American astronauts. Today, it waves high over the
White House. It is a flag for everyone, of every color, of every race, of every creed, and of every orientation, but the privilege of living under this flag does not come without cost. Nor should it come without respect.
The nation and everything it strives for is embodied in the American Flag. We strive to be more inclusive. We strive to be more understanding. We strive to fix the problems that plague our society. But in striving to do so we must have a common bond; some symbol that reminds us of our past struggles and propels us to a brighter, more enlightened future. That symbol is the American flag.
I would once again, ask the Presidents and the Athletic Directors to convey my message to your teams. The young student-athletes are future leaders of this nation. By showing respect for the flag, they are making it possible for America to be everything we dreamed it could be.
Written by: William H. McRaven, Chancellor of The University of Texas
System. A retired Navy Admiral.
This memo personifies how I personally feel about the current protest situation. As a granddaughter of a retired General, this subject just gets my goat…as, the saying goes. In any event, I thought you might want to share it with your readers.
Too bad Roger Goodell couldn’t display such courage!!!
Warmest regards,
Elizabeth Cavanaugh
President
EC DESIGNS, LLC.
Newport Coast, Ca
Just wanted to share some insights on the current American flag protest situation.
Thank you!!
I would have to echo what “Laura” above said. Much as I may or may not like how he chose to protest peacefully the fact remains its in our constitution that he has that right. We should respect that. We don’t have to like it but until we have walked in his shoes we really have no idea. I love my country and I cringe if I see a faded flag flying or a flag mishandled. I’ve always been very patriotic. However the very thing that makes our country great is the government isn’t jailing him or worse as they would do in other countries for his protest. Our country is founded on freedom so let him have his. I don’t have to agree or even like it. I only try to be compassionate enough to respect his choice and move past it.
Tina, I agree with you 100%! I am proud of the brave veterans in my family and proud to fly my American flag all year long. I was taught to be thankful for this precious country called America. Your blog makes me so happy. It brings beauty and elegance in a world of coarseness and vulgarity. Thank you so much. Much respect.
Well said, Veteran (commenter #24 above)!
No one is saying he doesn’t have the right. But does that make this right? NO. He was born into such privilege, and is earning million, a poster child for the American dream. His disrespect for his fellow countrymen, women and his lack of pride and gratitude for what he has been given is what has so many, including me outraged.
He should be dropped from the team. He has that right but has abused his moment in the spotlight.My daughter plays field hockey for a D1 school and let me tell you , if she ever even thought about disgracing our country that way, I would yank her out of that school so fast. It starts with the top and the leadership here is sorely lacking.
Good topic Tina.
Very interesting conversation. I don’t watch NFL so have really only seen news articles about this. I feel hesitant to criticize or judge his actions since I don’t know what it is like to live as a person of color in the US. I do respect the fact that he has chosen a peaceful stance.